I am not looking for anything other than friendship with fascinating people. Please don't request to be my friend without some sort of dialogue having been shared between us. By dialogue I mean more than you sending me a picture of your little soldier or little lady, and/or some text speak, mmkay? I'm picky like that, yo.
Two things are wanted by a true man, danger and play. Therefore, he seeks a woman, as the most dangerous toy. –Friedrich Nietzsche
First and foremost, I am short, I am not thin and I am Black. Yes, Black. That is not a typo; don't let the light skin and the red hair fool ya. So enough with the appallingly rude e-mails in regards to that fact.
I am a strong, independent, assertive woman with a healthy sense of self and a wicked streak. I just happen to love a man who can bring me to my knees both figuratively and literally. However, don't expect me to fall to my knees for you simply because you call yourself a dom. It takes intelligence, confidence, strength, trust and white hot chemistry to inspire my submission. It is not for just anybody. If you think that does not make a "twue submissive", you can just go bugger yourself.
This is not solely about sex, or about "scenes" or Play for me, for all of these aspects are entwined in my psyche. There is the connection between two that can bring out the best, the worst and everything in between in each other, the connection in which you find yourself, your truth. I say I am looking for friendship before anything else(I am open to what the fates bring me beyond that)because that is the truth of the matter; I cannot give over to someone I don't like. I need to want your mind, not just your body....
While I know we are all on here for varying degrees of the same thing, I see that as no excuse for boorishness. Expressing yourself intelligently and with a sense of humor is infinitely more attractive than confusing dominance with being an asshole.
*note: I'd prefer a man over 6 feet tall. Sorry, I likes 'em big.
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My Ideal Person:
A perverted gentleman with intelligence, humor, confidence, creativity, honesty, passion, and a large, strong body. Is that to much to ask?
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