6.20.09
Determining my Reality.
"Unicorn seeks Pegasus."
Those are mythical creatures. That is a fantasy.
My profile speaks to an activity I'd enjoy experiencing again, with like-minded male.
Strap-on isn't a fantasy, it's not a hobby, it's not a goal, it's not even the most important reason for maintaining (and updating) my profile.
I'm not on here to fulfill or cross off my "fantasies," I'm here to determine my reality.
Every ALT member is a "real;" human being represented by a profile. Many of those humans chose not to be f/actual. (were you actually born on Jan 1?)
When "privates" are posted publicly, the person becomes very "private." Preferring "Not to Say," much of anything.
I am very open to knowing other open-minded person no matter you they live. Have made and keep friends from around the world, hope to make more. What's interesting is who you are, not exclusively your "alternative" lifestyle.
Whether or not you're interested in my interest, if you're person with something to say, instead to ask, I'd like to hear from you.
If you think like-minded means, "I like what your thinking, Starlex," we are not like-minded.
I'm leaving the historical record of my profile's progression. Chances are if you keep reading, I've answered the other things you're wondering about.
updates:
*learned how to fix the html on my own.
*the photographer/collaborator is now my photographer/friend
Starlex short cut - most important to know from all that below:
1. profile section dated 4/5/08
2. network invites accepted with exchange of note, face photo or kudos
3. can't get your fill of me, want more of me, think you can take whatever i type out? starlex will satisfy.
4. I don't accept invitations to IM/chat or cam.
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2.21.09
NO LONGER Jockeying/Unicorn seeks Pegasus
Those are mythical creatures. That is a fantasy.
My profile is about an idea I want explore (again) with another person. (not a FWB = "I fuck a stranger, frequently/regularly").
I do not consider myself a DOMME Term me on which means i don't think of my partner as a sub or a slave (happy 200th birthday President Lincoln).
I'm not the ride, fellas. You are. I don't take you to FantasyLand, we're travel partners.
Long Ranger and Tonto, Silver's ancillary.
(Colt translation: Batman and Robin, Batmobile's ancillary).
*Fan colts: May 1939, Batman with "the car," April 1940, Robin.
It's 2009, this is my version, not Mr. Nolan's. Keeping the 'mobile, Robin's riding shotgun.
*will i be gentle? *why I won't fuck you, even if you ask real nice *
*FAQS on Phallus info sheet (coming soon!)
starlex is loaded with answers and PHOTOS.
Want to join my network? Kudo me. Or write a note and include a photo of your face. Either, or. One is compulsory. Instructions were in my profile, at the end. Subs/slaves that respond to or understand verbal commands only are grossly under qualified to serve in a wired world.
Or write html to help me format - ALT's is broken (again).
------1.17.10 ---discovered most of my profile's text was converted to symbols. Slaves and subordinates, y'all missed another chance to be of service. Dom/Master, willingly submit to (proofreading) correction, sir. -----
Jockeying for position behind or above you/WHOA there
Updated 9.15.08, rev. 6 scroll down
You are feisty, hard-to-train, hung like a human, never been broken or ridden hard but never well. I'm confident, articulate, toned-to-muscular depending on the part, witty, professional (oops, employed), candid and thorough. Several years ago I was in a long term relationship that included fucking my guy and other activities -- usually described by consonant clusters.
Subsequent boyfriends were not interested or willing to let me mount them. Felt that it wasn't reasonable to insist because its primarily a mental turn on for me, one that can fuel my fire not light it. Currently, I'm single and ready to giddy up.
I think describing strap-on in equestrian terms is a fitting analogy. The thought of "making you my bitch" - tough, defiant, assertive (too much so) is a phrase that's never felt natural. I looking for a "mount," not a goddess worshiper, bottom, slave; slut is optional. Horsey stuff is much more tasteful and has potential to move beyond dildo, ...crop, reins, gelding, blinders, bits ....currently, ass play, taking the lead on the d/s trail is my foremost interest.
This post is about my desires, other activities do not stimulate me like this one does. Willing to consider your preferred training methods, if they coincide with my end goal.
A note on safe sex: "sometimes" comment in profile. If I'm cantering along the mouth-to-rear trail, it's usually bareback. Reversing the route requires the proper tack.
I strap on a cock, I don't think with it. My mind makes the decisions, not my groin. Compulsion to whip, slick, and dick it; eliminated. Make a note of this distinction before your penis volunteers your ass.
MY IDEALIZED PERSON: - if he exists, and if he doesn't I'd kept my fantasy intact, rather than lower my expectations. If one compromises their fantasy, its damaged forever.
In my fantasy the man has the body (penis size optional) of gay porn star with a little more hair on the chest and legs.
I'm attracted to intelligent, witty, compassionate passionate men. Muscles are appreciated, facial hair isn't... lean, tall...are you a model with a Mensa card? A water polo player with a published novel, or a blog on Slatecom? It's what works for me - the team captain/commander of the battalion/fireman/construction worker masculine type.
A guy who's confident enough to let me do my thing without doing anything to me. One that is able to admit his desire to have his butt slammed until the finish line. A gent who realizes it's not humiliation, it's pleasure.
If he's hetero, he's secure with his sexuality, won't be compelled tell me he's not gay. I'm wiling to throw a leg over gay, bi males, straight men who play with guys, straight men that like women who were guys, and men who prefer ladies with ovaries.
I tend to be drawn to colts. It's exhilarating to teach them to take the bit, understand the subtleties of reins; then, and only then, break them into the rhythm, without breaking their spirit. I like their friskiness, tight, hard bodies and curiosity about the trainer.
Concessions have to be made to accommodate reality, and the reality is mental and physical attraction are crucial. I can't do you to do it, it must be rooted in desire. You should be attracted to me as well, not just my cock or my ability to use it. Don't lower your standards to get your ass filled, it's really not a compliment to either of us.
Yes, personality counts. If your photo adds 10 lbs, a weird shadow and shallow skin, then flaunt your stuff (not your cock) on your profile, AND/or email.
If you write to me, please make sure your profile is filled out or contains more than two sentences. If it doesn't, then describe yourself to me in your email, flesh yourself out. Wanting to serve is not a description, it is a desire. A list of adjectives isn't a definition; use them in sentences. Why do you think we might we get along?
I wrote a short essay, I won't reply to haiku.
Enclose a face photo, you've seen mine, well I hope you did, it's located north of my cock.
Maybe I'll see you on the track.
[if255 1]
My Ideal Person:
UPDATED 5.17.08
Based on the number of responses received, I've struck a nerve or a gland previously ignored, forgotten or newly discovered. Knowing my profile left an impression, is a compliment to my writing skills, or perhaps it's the topic itself.
Clearly, posterior play would benefit from a marketing campaign. Ass does NOT mean gay. If that were true then men who have or fantasize about having anal sex in a women must be gay - why chose the bum over the puss?
MANIFESTO:
Should I probe your rear I won't assume you're queer.
Lacking a prostate gland, mine is no man's land.
I don't sport f***and try to resist the temptation of trophy f***ing. The typical rules apply - attraction, shared interests besides this one, ability to communicate off the keyboard; a connection of some type. A "serious" relationship status is not required for me to strap in, however, i'm seriously selectively in choosing partners.
No married or attached or involved men. My definition: You have a valid marriage license. You live with a woman, share a bed. You are engaged. You see the same woman/ts/man once every 10 day or less, and have done so for at last 3 months.
You should have some experience (self-exploration counts) with ass play - your own that is. Know how to ensure it's good CLEAN fun.
Currently i'm riding my photographer - the better photos are his work. He posed and shot me for 10 hours, strenuous but fair; i posed him the previous 6 days - away from the camera.
My collaborator lives in Vegas; I'm either under exercised or overdoing him. I considered myself a one mount per season jockey.
Willing to explore stabling a local stallion without the desire to prove i can. This Southern California-based creative collaborator possess the fundamental ability think and converse on subjects in addition to our cocks and his desire. He uses spell check.
Revised 09.15.08
If you found my pictures to be "an outstanding contribution from a community member," say it with KUDOS, click KUDOS up right on my profile (naturally, this option is not available to standard members) and follow instructions. I'M NOT SOLICITING FOR COMPLIMENTS, i am recommending a delivery method.
If a picture is worth 1000 words, then my Profile is worth 2 photos, if you read it more than once KUDO it, if it helped flesh out your fantasy, KUDO in accordance to effectiveness.
Give your kudos away to those you think deserves them. Don't squander your votes (on Alt or in Nov.), make them count. Why not play it forward? Kudos will catch her or his or their attention. It's a positive proactive gesture, eclipses the "flirt" and stimulates the alt-economy. Bucking convention is only slightly less empowering than fucking unconventionally.
This clue was buried in my profile for 3 months. I thought it'd be shortcut to identify those that i thought best understood what i wanted.
I'm wandering off-profile. I've lead you to my cock, can i encourage you to think? i'll be at starlex playing with ideas, letting them run free.
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