My Ideal Person:
In my fantasies the man has the body (penis size optional) of gay porn star with a little more hair on the chest and legs.

I'm attracted to intelligent, witty, compassionate passionate men. Muscles are appreciated, facial hair isn't... lean, tall...are you a model with a Mensa card? A water polo player with a published novel, or a blog on Slatecom? It's what works for me - the team captain/commander of the battalion/fireman/construction worker masculine type.

A guy who's confident enough to let me do my thing without doing anything to me. One that is able to admit his desire to have his butt slammed until the finish line. A gent who realizes it's not humiliation, it's pleasure.

If he's hetero, he's secure with his sexuality, won't be compelled tell me he's not gay. I'm wiling to throw a leg over gay, bi males, straight men who play with guys, straight men that like women who were guys, and men who prefer ladies with ovaries.

I tend to be drawn to colts. It's exhilarating to teach them to take the bit, understand the subtleties of reins; then, and only then, break them into the rhythm, without breaking their spirit. I like their friskiness, tight, hard bodies and curiosity about the trainer.

Concessions have to be made to accommodate reality, and the reality is mental and physical attraction are crucial. I can't do you to do it, it must be rooted in desire. You should be attracted to me as well, not just my cock or my ability to use it. Don't lower your standards to get your ass filled, it's really not a compliment to either of us.

Yes, personality counts. If your photo adds 10 lbs, a weird shadow and shallow skin, then flaunt your stuff (not your cock) on your profile, AND/or email.

If you write to me, please make sure your profile is filled out or contains more than two sentences. If it doesn't, then describe yourself to me in your email, flesh yourself out. Wanting to serve is not a description, it is a desire. A list of adjectives isn't a definition; use them in sentences. Why do you think we might we get along?

I wrote a short essay, I won't reply to haiku.

Enclose a face photo, you've seen mine, well I hope you did, it's located north of my cock.

Maybe I'll see you on the track.

UPDATED 5.17.08
Based on the number of responses received, I've struck a nerve or a gland previously ignored, forgotten or newly discovered. Knowing my profile left an impression, is a compliment to my writing skills, or perhaps it's the topic itself.

Clearly, posterior play would benefit from a marketing campaign. Ass does NOT mean gay. If that were true then men who have or fantasize about having anal sex in a women must be gay - why chose the bum over the puss?


MANIFESTO:
Should I probe your rear I won't assume you're queer.
Lacking a prostate gland, mine is no man's land.

I don't sport f***and try to resist the temptation of trophy f***ing. The typical rules apply - attraction, shared interests besides this one, ability to communicate off the keyboard; a connection of some type. A "serious" relationship status is not required for me to strap in, however, i'm seriously selectively in choosing partners.

No married or attached or involved men. My definition: You have a valid marriage license. You live with a woman, share a bed. You are engaged. You see the same woman/ts/man once every 10 day or less, and have done so for at last 3 months.

You should have some experience (self-exploration counts) with ass play - your own that is. Know how to ensure it's good CLEAN fun.

Currently i'm riding my photographer - the better photos are his work. He posed and shot me for 10 hours, strenuous but fair; i posed him the previous 6 days - away from the camera.

My collaborator lives in Vegas; I'm either under exercised or overdoing him. I considered myself a one mount per season jockey.

Willing to explore stabling a local stallion without the desire to prove i can. This Southern California-based creative collaborator possess the fundamental ability think and converse on subjects in addition to our cocks and his desire. He uses spell check.

Revised 09.15.08
If you found my pictures to be "an outstanding contribution from a community member," say it with KUDOS, click KUDOS up right on my profile (naturally, this option is not available to standard members) and follow instructions. I'M NOT SOLICITING FOR COMPLIMENTS, i am recommending a delivery method.

If a picture is worth 1000 words, then my Profile is worth 2 photos, if you read it more than once KUDO it, if it helped flesh out your fantasy, KUDO in accordance to effectiveness.

Give your kudos away to those you think deserves them. Don't squander your votes (on Alt or in Nov.), make them count. Why not play it forward? Kudos will catch her or his or their attention. It's a positive proactive gesture, eclipses the "flirt" and stimulates the alt-economy. Bucking convention is only slightly less empowering than fucking unconventionally.

This clue was buried in my profile for 3 months. I thought it'd be shortcut to identify those that i thought best understood what i wanted.

I'm wandering off-profile. I've lead you to my cock, can i encourage you to think? i'll be at starlex playing with ideas, letting them run free.