My Ideal Person:
I am a submissive female who, after a two-year hiatus, is ready to re-kindle my love for the intensity of BDSM. I used to be quite a masochist and have lost that over the past two years of inactivity of SM and am looking at re-ignite that love.

I'm not looking for someone to JUST beat my ass -- there's a whole lot more to me (and hopefully you) than that.

I AM looking for someone that is experienced in the lifestyle. I know everyone has to start somewhere, but I'm looking for someone who's familiar with this and has been doing this for some time. This person should be able to communicate nonverbally, good at "reading" people, and familiar with pushing limits.

I am looking for local connections -- turn this into real time if we think there's a connection of some sort. Please send your picture with your first communication -- you know what I look like and I want the same from you.

About US:

My husband and I are into full swap and playing individually. We are secure in our relationship and enjoy the company of others, both with each other and individually. We are active locally, both with various friends privately and with local groups that enjoy each other. He is one that has never disappointed or left anyone unsated.