So, this didn't work so well the first time, so am I insane for trying this again? I met someone and things were good. Or so I thought. Then one day, out of nowhere, he decides to cut things off (not literally) by telling me I'm not submissive enough. Just because I'm submissive doesn't mean I have "Welcome" printed on my back.
So, if I'm not insane and can chalk that up to a learning experience, what have I learned:
1. I want a man to make me the center of his universe
2. I have opinion and will express it
3. I am not a mind reader, so subtle hints and wishes won't work
4. There isn't a relationship fairy, for a relationship of any type to work, we have to communicate.
5. I want a strong man with a soft side.
6. As my friend put it, I don't want the man I can live with, I want the one I can't live without.
Guess I'm not as submissive as I thought I was.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for the one. Maybe I'm looking in the wrong place, but I am looking. I'm not looking to play or for casual/discrete encounters. If you're married or in a relationship, keep looking. The last one had a good feel, he said he was looking for a long term situation. Didn't work out. What I'm looking for is a man that will tell me what he wants. One that will tell me that I'm too fat/skinny. That I wear too much make-up. I want him to dress me up or dress me down. I want a man to take pride in ownership and happily place me on a pedistal for all to admire.
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