My Ideal Person:
I like men who are confident but not cocky. I find a variety of men attractive ranging from clean cut to a little shaggy and from lean to pretty built or even a little extra padding but I do appreciate some level of self care. Ideally I would like someone who can appreciate me as a friend, be fond of me as a person, and have enough of a connection to make hooking up not seem cheap or awkward. The friendship and fondness are not because I lack that in my life it is simply because I don't find even raw sex very satisfying without it. I do not want a boyfriend from this site or anywhere on the internet for that matter. I find the guys I want date while I am doing the things I like to do. Clingy or emotionally fragile indiviuals are too much work so I am not interested. Married or attached people need not contact me unless you want to be involved together or at least both partners be fully aware of the situation; again, the potential for drama is too much work so I am not interested. My hope for this site or Adult FriendFinder is that it will provide connections with men to help me stay satisfied when there isn't someone in my non-sex focused socializing who stokes my fire.