Hi ... again ... first off, let me say, the butterfly photo is not of me. I found that amazing photo online (and if you good Alex at Inspiratrices, you will find it.)
OK, now to the important stuff, evolution is continuous and so is my journey ... so what am I looking for now?
If I said I was looking for casual, kinky sex, I would have all of the wanna-bes on here contacting me, trying to be everything I want. I don't want a wanna-be ...
But if I said that I was looking for a 24/7 D/s relationship, I would quickly disappoint, mislead, and/or not be able to satisfy Someone that is worthy of being called a Dom/Domme. I've been there, done that, and failed at the 24/7 thing. I have far too many priorities in my life to attempt that again ....
So, somewhere between casual and forever is the Person that I'm looking for -- a relatively casual, but yet somewhat committed relationship from which I can continue to serve and please, grow and evolve.
I want to play regularly -- privately and publicly -- but I also want to go to the movies, watch the sunset while drinking a margarita, go camping ... in a tent (have You seen those BDSM camping trips? How cool is that!!!), and just hang out ....
I am not that experienced, but I wouldn't say I'm inexperienced anymore. I've done a lot, but there is a lot more that I want to do. I want my boundaries pushed, and I've found that I can only do that from the comfort of a relationship -- meaning I want more than a one night stand!!!!
I know it seems that I want a lot, but truthfully, we all want a lot, regardless of our orientation, Top/bottom, Dom/sub, Master/slave. And there has to be a connection on a level that is much deeper than simply You being a Top and me being a bottom. If I don't/can't tell You what I want, how will You know if we connect? You won't, and I don't want to waste Your time.
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My Ideal Person:
Before I describe my ideal person, let me say, if there is something about You that takes You off this list, please don't be offended. We each have our own tastes ... It doesn't mean that I think less of You, it just means that we aren't a match ...
Ok, my ideal person is Dominant with a capital D -- I'm not interested in switches and I'm definitely not interested in submissive men. I am a strong female, who wants an even stronger male. I want a Man (maybe a Woman) who is mature (but under 50), educated, accomplished, and self-sufficient. I want Someone who is easy going, can laugh at Himself, will dance in the rain, and take off in the middle of the night on a whim. I love self-confidence, even arrogance, if it is earned -- we all know the difference between earned arrogance and "just plain jerk" arrogance. It would be great if You weren't a native of Southern California .... I was born here, but there is a materialism that I just find quite ugly ....
More wants, I know .... can I add one more? Over 6 feet tall?????
Lastly, I'm not that interested in spending a lot of time chatting online. I would rather meet in person sooner than later. I don't do phone sex or cybersex with strangers, and You are a stranger if we haven't met in person.
By now, You may be thinking that I think too highly of myself ... I really don't. I'm not perfect; You will never be able to pick me up against the wall and fuck me (I could diet forever, but at 5'8" it will never happen), but You might be surprised at what I will do for You. I'm looking for Someone to lead me into new adventures. I follow well, but I need Someone who recognizes that I have a lot to contribute. I've worked too hard to get to where I am to be with Someone who doesn't appreciate that.
If You've made this far, and You are still interested, please drop me an email. I look forward to hearing from You.
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