My Ideal Person:
I am finding myself more and more intrigued and charmed by male subs and slaves. I never thought I would find them appealing but the more I have grown in D/s the more I enjoy what they have to offer. Please understand: although I can be very strict, demanding and harsh, I am also very loving. If you are a slave or submissive who cannot appreciate or stand being loved and admired at times, while also being humiliated and used at others, then I may not be for you.

I am not a "Pro" Domme. I am a switch that can neither Dominate nor submit without love and attraction. You must have a photo attached to your message for me to respond to you. You must be able to relocate if you wish to pursue an eventual relationship. You must be able to enjoy vanilla pursuits. I am not going to keep anyone in a cage 24/7 because I get nothing out of that, how boring. I will not conduct an online affair without some hope of meeting. I WILL NOT CONSIDER MARRIED MEN. I do not expect financial "tribute" (what the hell is that supposed to be anyway? sheesh) although I do expect you to be self-supporting and hopefully somewhat successful. I would expect that if we were to develop a "LTR" that you would have no problem contributing significantly to our family upkeep.

I am looking for a man who wants to explore the deep passion available in a lifetime M/s, BDSM relationship. I am an experienced Mistress. I look for sincerity, open-mindedness and a sturdy sense of self, as well as a good sense of humor. I appreciate a man or boy who knows what he wants but is maybe unsure of how, exactly, to unleash his desires and is looking for a strong woman to usher him safely into the world of D/s and BDSM. I prefer men ages 30 to 50, or women slightly younger than me (25 to 35) who are NOT insane and who ARE serious about exploring this in real life. I have a BFA and am fairly intelligent. If you're not very "bright" you should be able to fake it or make up for it in personality, attractiveness and resources. You should have some spirit! I've no use for a cringing cowering submissive or slave - ANYONE can Domme that sort. I am not into the silly online protocols and of course you can call me by my name unless we agree otherwise down the road. You need NOT be a model, I do NOT like extremely skinny men or women, normal and average is LOVELY, as is a good build on a male (although I certainly do like bigger men, build-wise, not obese but 30 extra pounds or so is no problem for me at all). After a few chats you should be willing to talk on the phone and to possibly schedule a meeting. I will not travel more than 100 miles outside my area, so if you are further away than that you will need to think about how you will meet me. Online and phone do NOTHING for me.

Nothing is really a deal-breaker for me other than the usual hard limits (scat, blood, children). Some things I personally enjoy are bondage, impact play, sensation play, watersports, serving, OSODD training, humiliation (in varying degrees), display, roleplay, forced and/or denied orgasm (orgasm control, possibly to include limited chastity). I am NOT into feminization and do not wish to meet any TS/TG.