My Ideal Person:
Outside of a relationship:

Always seeking other attractive Doms and subs for professional filming - Yes that means you get paid - If you feel you have the right look are interested in BDSM performing please drop me an email and be sure to include a full body shot and head shot pic.

For myself:

Please own and know how to safely use floggers, canes, and single tails at a minimum.
Please know the meaning of the terms "warm up", "cool down", and "sub drop".
Please be emotionally available and willing to explore LTR. Yes, that means being open to the possibility of falling in love and more.

Know that participating in a scene relationship without my heart getting involved - since it brings out many vulnerabilities - is virtually impossible for me.

Know that getting involved with someone who isn't interested in potentially deepening the relationship, is just opening me up for hurt - and I don't want that kind of pain again.
As the saying goes, better to be alone, then be alone with someone else.

It may sound shallow - but looks matter - I'm fit and considered attractive by most - and really appreciate the same.

Wit, humor, intelligence go a long way in my book - especially sardonic wit! Think Monty Python, Black Adder.

I am a professional and I seek the same.

Please be financially secure - I am.

I want to enjoy all aspects of life - not just BDSM - with my partner. I hope that will include travel, fine dining, dancing, theatre, volleyball, waterskiing etc. I travel to Europe at least once a year - a companion who can pay his own way and more would be a wonderful addition.

To me and to you the scene and BDSM is a wonderful spice - but not the whole meal! A vanilla exterior to the rest of the world is a must.