I am an attractive experienced sub sometimes switch who has been in the lifestyle all my life. I have an assertive, dominant personality and only wish to role play as a sub. Thanks for your email(s) to those (most) of you I have not been able to keep up replying to. I try to return emails, but it's just impossible to keep up and try to have a life as well.
(Today's note: Saturday 1/19/08: Good morning everyone, and thanks for your emails and for your efforts. If at first you don't succeed...hang the hell in there.
Idealistically, what I'm really looking for is someone who I can have a regular LT physical,as well as a spiritual relationship with someone who is into the BDSM mindset. I know this probably isn't the right place to look for a meaningful relationship, but I am interested in that as well.
I'm not so much into the use of toys and equipment in order to have fun, because they sometimes slow down the equilibrium of the sex equation! though I do like to use them at times. Alright, now you're trying to analyze me) I like toys, bondage, etc. but would just like someone who preferably likes to assume the Dom/Master role in sexual play and can be creative with his mind and body for pleasure exchange...trying to find someone decent and respectful at the same time. I don't think I'm asking too much of anything. Has anyone ever tried frozen hot chocolate? Chocoholics welcome!
What I don't like are (sociopaths)people who lie, are abusive, and can only conceptually relate to their own needs, and not the needs of others. I would rather be alone the rest of my life than to deal with people who have serious issues with this. I know noone is perfect, and neither am I, but I am really tired of dealing with people like this.
Sincerely,
margaret
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My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a caucasion male dom preferably or switch for a LT physical (friendship and a meaningful relationship would be great as well) relationship who is into BDSM play. I am open to a more serious relationship. I am not looking for marriage, as I've also played that part and I just can't play that scene again. I am not looking to jump into bed with someone and would like to get to know someone over some course of time first to make sure they are the right partner for me. I am not in a big hurry to find someone, and I really don't know if I will be able to find what I am looking for at all. I will tell you that it is very important what kind of a person you are, since I do not want to be with someone that I don't care for...so friends first, and getting to know someone a while would be the way I operate. It would also be great if I could find someone who I can just call friend to me, someone who is kind and considerate, decent as well as well educated. I am tired of going without a certain type of fun in my life if you know what I mean. It has been about four years since I was in a LT relationship which was vanilla, and I'm tired of being alone - although I do enjoy my alone time as well. I want someone who is not married and/or sneaking around behind someone's back because I've played that part before and I don't want to play that part again. This person should ideally live relatively nearby for regular fun. HINT: Virginia Beach. I am looking for someone who is preferably experienced and into the scene for play. Idealistically, I would like a one on one, exclusive or non-exclusive LT - someone not involved with many others. One is all I need. I don't go around meeting lots of people for play, nor do I want to start.
It's necessary that I find a decent balanced person who does not have a sociopath, abusive personality which I've found is difficult to find in the scene. I am not looking to move in with someone, but if the right situation presented itself - I would have to know them for several years. I am happy to be living alone. I am not looking to become a 24/7 slave.
Please understand: I am not interested in being around cigarette smoke, so if you are a cigarette smoker, I would not be interested in meeting or associating with cigarette smokers since I find cigarettes revolting as an ex-cigarette smoker. It doesn't matter if you refrain while you're around me -no cigarette smokers, please! Also, I do not want to be tempted to smoke cigarettes in a weak moment. It's ok to be green...if you know what I mean. Nothing else, please! No self serving sociopaths. Also, if you are not prepared to send or exchange a facial pic, you are wasting both of our time.
Some of my other interests include, singing, songwriting, writing, art, acting, being out in nature, and travel - especially to warm exotic places. I love being and living on (am fortunate enough)direct open waterfront...and movies. Life is a movie
Sincerely,
margaret
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