PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME IF YOU DON'T HAVE A FACE PIC TO SHARE IMMEDIATELY. you've seen plenty of me via my pics; please extend me the same courtesy. I do not need or want to see your cock pic. Thank you.
I'm not looking for more than friends at this point, so please do not contact me hoping to hook up or otherwise change my mind. I can get a piece of action anywhere, anytime, so please don't try to get some from me. It's the mind that should be stimulated between people, not just the genitals! As the saying goes, the brain is the biggest sexual organ we have... and isn't that what real D/s is all about, anyway!?!
I'm a woman of very high standards because I want to receive what I give out. I'm extremely protective of those I love and don't put up with BS from people for very long. If I trust my first instinct, it won't lead me astray. Just because I'm submissive doesn't mean I'll submit to you, or that I'm less worthy than you are. If anything, the opposite is true.
I am... responsible, spontaneous, a planner and manager, funny, a giggler, shy, forgetful, a flirt, in charge, subserviant to my Husband, impatient, intolerant of certain stupidities and annoying personalities- especially the chronic whiners and depressants, interested in finding a woman to share my bed, home and family...
I am not... into cyber or dirty chat before i've met someone, a doormat, dumb, willing to be discreet (except for professional reasons), all talk and no action- for the chosen few, interested in quickies or fuck buddy-only hook ups, a drama queen, into games...
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My Ideal Person:
Please do not contact me if you're interest is mainly to serve or be served by me. Friends are always welcome, but only if it looks like you've taken the time to read my profile. Thanks in advance for that respect!
1) i'd like to be with another female sub, looking for someone of like mind, body and spirit, who'd hopefully be interested in joining my family. A strong relationship with me, at least out of the bedroom, is a must. she should fit well in a variety of social settings, from my toddler's play dates to potentially a work function on my behalf or with me. i'm not so much concerned that she and i have a D/s relationship, though if things got serious enough to consider her a part of the family, i would be the alpha sub and she should be comfortable following my Husband's lead and life, as well. (His profile is SirReinar, and He will handle the "looking" for this partner.)
2) I'm toying with the idea of exploring my dominance over a straight male sub. Mostly, I'm looking for someone who's interested in service and implementing personal limits and expectations for the subbie as well as pleasure (My pleasure, and giving you pleasure and fulfillment in your service). I'm still begining to gain experience with wielding toys and implements, but I definitely know how to command any situation I put my mind to. And I understand the need for a mental connection preceeds any physical connection or emotional trust. This arrangement may not involve my Husband (SirReinar, and He is straight), but He would most likely be involved at least in giving guidance to My use of various toys on the subbie. He may also wish to instruct the subbie on how best to serve and please Me, since He knows Me well. So the subbie must be open to at least a peripheral involvement by Reinar...
Non-negotiables for either additional partner include having similar traits as mine: responsible, intelligent, honest, open, caring, funny, quick-witted, need to work hard and play hard (though not necessarily physically hard play). I'd like to open my heart and home to someone that will fit in with vanilla daily life as well as kinky play parties and D/s mentality.
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