I am a Domme who cyber-practices at this stage, not to rule out in-person sessions at a later date of my choosing. My style is more of the mind than the body - I view the physical body as an extention of the mind and sexuality through BDSM as the bridge between the two. BDSM mates and meshes form with thought and ultimately, Spirit. As my focus to date has been on the mental aspect, I am in need of direction, a balance if you will regarding the obvious physicalties of the lifestyle, i.e. correct methods of bondage, r/t decorum, etc. I have to date enjoyed very much exchanging emails with other dominants and learning from their experiences, and have felt much welcomed.
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My Ideal Person:
I prefer males, but will not exclude the right female. Above that, I prefer forthrightness: if you are truly interested in Me for Me, let Me know...if you aren't or have lost interest, that is fine as well, just tell Me. Looks aren't important to me, a person's demeanor does. I am interested in meeting all sorts of people from BDSM and learning from them; developing my skills and generally just enjoying one another's company. I like many found that this intrigued me sexually by accident. I live in the midwest US, where I live there are no official meeting places for those interesting in exploring this side of themselves. Vanilla is the official sanction around here. I would like to branch out using this site for sexual gratification , social contacts and information. Join Me?
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