I am fairly new to this. It wasn't until talking with a friend I realized I had submissive tendencies. I am looking to learn,experiment,explore. I have always had fantasies,desires but never knew how to make them come true. I have an aggresive personality in everyday life but I need a master to help with my sexual side.Be treated like a princess and allowed to be a slut at night. 
Many of the people I have meet are not what not I think of when I think BDSM. I have met a few who have been great but I find the majority think calling me names or slapping me around a bit, or ordering me to do this or that is being dom. I think BDSM is about the exchange between the two - dom/sub. Although there is domination, I still feel the dom should care and respect his sub. I still have value and matter as a person even though I am a sub. Being a sub does not make me worthless. I am a smart,educated, and ambitious woman and submitting does not make me less of that.I won't submit to you just because you say are dom. I want a connection with my dom/master and even if you dont think that is correct, that's the way it is with me.
Do not even bother to contact me if you think a sub is a worthless piece or whatever along that line. I am not into animals, anything dealing with human waste, blood, branding, needles, or humilation.
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My Ideal Person:
I looking for someone who can handle that I am a strong person with a professional career. I am looking for a dominant who can be discreet, but who also understands that I have a playful side. My career/education is very important to me and I want my dom to be willing to accept me - all of me, my submissive sexual side as well as my stand toe to toe with the man in the everyday world as well. I have no problem serving my dom but I would hope he would respect me as well. I guess I am looking for a gentle,loving dom who will know what I need when I need it. As I said before many the people I have met or talked with think calling me a cunt or bitch or slapping me around a bit is being dom, and to me that is just a guy being a prick - there is a time and place for it all. I want a connection, to feel loved and cherished by my dom.
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