hi i'm a newbie. bdsm is something i've been interested in for many years. primarily the dominance and submission aspects. but the others as well. now through the years i have told various partners what i wanted. well they didn't get it or weren't good at. i'm sorry but topping from the bottom isn't all that enjoyable for me. i'm open to trying a wide range practices. there are a few things that are absolute no's with me. everything else can be negotiated. also this is just my thing, if your married, seperated,or in anyway involved with someone do not contact me for anyting other than friendship. also i am not on here to chat i'm here for real experiance. that said i am not here looking for a one night fuck either. also not looking for 24/7. there are aspects of my life that would interfer with that. not just looking for sex but also for someone i can connect with.
now a little bit more about me. I am a sexual submissive. my submissiveness doesn't extend to far from the bedroom, where ever the bedroom is at that time. i'm a smart and intellegent woman. and expect the same in my partners.
UPDATE: AS OF NOV. 08 I WILL BE OUT OF THE COUNTRY FOR THE NEXT YEAR OR SO FOR WORK.
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My Ideal Person:
i would prefer a dom. with several years experiance. who is a definate practitioner of "safe, sane, and consentual." meets the preceding requirements. and whos company i can enjoy. intellegent, witty, good humored, funny,and attractive at least to me anyway.
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