I'm 53 years young, asian, 5'4", black hair, brown eyes, ht/wt proportionate, & clean. I consider myself to be intelligent, kind, sincere, honest, & good-humored (which can include dry & self-deprecating).
If I had to describe myself in a short phrase, I would call myself a Philosophical Introvert. That does not mean, however, that I'm a passive person. I'm able to be as submissive as one would like me to be while in the bedroom (or wherever). I do NOT aspire to be a submissive slave in a 24/7 total power exchange.
I've participated in spanking activities for several years; the interest having been there my entire life. it's a wonderful prelude to sex, which always needs to follow because the spanking gets me extremely aroused. Having this type of sexual orientation, I am unable to achieve gratification just through vanilla sex. It is also for this reason that I'm posting my profile on this site.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm seeking someone who is intelligent, kind, sincere, respectful, trustworthy, HONEST, clean, disease-free, self-assured, & has a good sense of humor.
The person I seek should also be capable of candid, clear, & open communication. Being able to share intelligent pleasant conversation over mutual (or even conflicting) interests would be an added plus. Please don't misunderstand this . . . I am not a chatterbox, nor do I expect you to be talking all the time. I've just found evasiveness counterproductive to a successful relationship, & I'm not a mind reader. BTW, gossip is a real turn-off for me too!
Another desirable preference is for someone who has had experience as a spanker, rather than a newbie or one who is just curious - Not necessarily a dom, but definitely familiar with this practice.
Someone who is local (or at least within a 75 mile radius) is preferable. My long-distance relationships have so far not worked out well.
If you happen to be a pathological liar, or simply find it difficult to be truthful, please do NOT contact me. It's hard enough trying to discern reality as I perceive it, without having to untangle the fabrications of another.
Also, if you don't like games, it would behoove you not to indulge in them with me as well. Be kind to me & I'll reciprocate.
LTR possible, but friends 1st. Let's begin with the chemistry & see where it goes from there.
Please include a recent photo when contacting me (preferably of your face, & not your cock). NO SUBS, BISEXUALS, LIARS, OR MARRIED MEN PLEASE!
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