I'm in college right now and have been through the whole dating bit. But everyone I'm with seems to lack a certain something. This lifestyle is something that I've thought about for quite awhile now, but never pursued.
I'm a virgin in every sense of the word. I've never been in a d/s relationship, I've never had sex. And although I am on here to explore the alt lifestyle, I don't plan on giving it up anytime soon. I just say it to give you a heads up so that I can't be accused of being a tease later on.
I get off on getting others off. Not necessarily in a sexual context. I fully expect to cook and clean to please my partner. Picture Leave It To Beaver. The mom? That's who I want to be. I want to care for someone and look after them. But never be in the dominant position. I don't want to be submissive just in a sexual sense, I crave it all the time.
What exactly this translates to in lifestyle terminology, I'm not sure. But that's why I'm here.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for someone who knows more about this lifestyle and can teach me. I need someone strong enough to push me to my limits. I need someone who is also strong enough not to break me. I enjoy pain, but I also crave the comfort that can come only from my partner.
ETA: Just a heads up, I hate the idea of masturbating or receiving oral. I don't like that kind of direct stimulation. I much prefer just pleasing others and partaking in various other activities.
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