I am looking for a man who has what it takes to dominate me in the bedroom and explore some alternative activities of which I am more than willing to experience with the right match. PLEASE NO MARRIED OR ATTACHED MEN. I do love it kinky and like to be gently restrained from time to time. I do not like humiliation or to be called derogatory names. Pamper me and I will happily submit to start, but understand that I was married for 12 years so the world of "dating" and a possible path of different social directions is new a new surprise to me.. I am open to the idea of many things and have a good imagination, but so far is is rare for me to act act out in the physical that are dreams of the mind. If I acted out on every fantasy, 40% of everyone I have met would be dead having departed by many different scenarios of demise. So much is new to me for I have been working on a project for 5 years now and have a growing family I just didn't have time to pursue men in any active effort. I meet men everywhere I go, such as ACE Hardware and many give me give me "the look". As I dart a quick look into their eyes,. some might get a smile and nothing more, but most I ignore for I do not have much time to devote to a daily relationship. I am happy in life. Curiosity being one of my greatest pastimes,. Just changing the object of my curiosity is a concrete given. I have 2 grown children. I am originally from NC, moved to CA in 89.' I can be social social & get along with people from all walks of life. I like all kinds of outdoor sports, cooking, and have been know to have a great sense of humor.
The best way to describe myself would be that I am a very good listener as well as a enjoy and intense verbal interchange.. I try to get to the soul of the person I am interested in. I do want to know about someone's past but I believe in moving forward. We shouldn't dwell on our bad experiences just learn by them. I believe in total honesty in every aspect of a relationship. Communication is the key even when it might hurt sometimes. It isn't important as to what my partner does for a living as long as it is an honest profession.It is important that he can support himself. My financial position buys me much freedom. I have been a professional artist since the age of 8
. I would like to meet someone who is thoughtful & kind. It's the little things and thoughtful actions to which I pay most attention. Consideration of my time is a major turn on to me! Expensive gifts don't impress me, but thoughtful gestures and a curiosity in my story will have me thinking about lowering the moat and let the person in. I like to build others up and will only accept the same in all my relationships including my dog.. I want someone to appreciate the things I do for them, understanding I do them because I enjoy contributing to making someone feel happy, secure, understood, accepted & that I am not trying to impress them. I believe that when we find the right individuals, we will love them for who they are. Trying to change someone to suit your own needs is not only wrong but impossible. Of course we might be inspired by another to change many of our behaviors and therefore become more connected to the human race as the most diverse of any species of mammal.
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My Ideal Person:
A man whom I can not "pussy whip" Who is not married or emeshed with the ex wife or former girlfriend.
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