I have decided to update my profile in order to clarify a few things.
About me...
Submissive.... I don't switch - not even a little! (although I can be sort of a brat at times)
It has become obvious that some of you folks are mislead by the picture of me holding a flogger on this profile.
Please understand... I do not want to use it on you... however...I wouldn't mind having it used on me.
I took that picture to show how pleased I was to receive the flogger which was made and sent to me by a good friend of mine who lives across the country.
Now a bit more about me...
I see myself first and foremost as a good woman of good character who is looking for a man of good character. The following words come to mind: loyalty, honesty, integrity, understanding, patient, caring and fun-loving.
I have this secret garden within my core - it's part of my being and part of who I am.
I don't see it as a role or role-play. There is much depth, enrichment, bonding, emotional and physical fulfillment to be found within this special garden. Pleasure, pain, service, bondage, exploration, willingness, challenges, obedience, disobedience, discipline, rewards, punishment, hunger, trust, vulnerability, limits, freedom and learning all reside here.
The dominant who finds his way into my secret garden will be a very rare and special man - I'm beginning to think he's a mythical creature. He must possess some intellect, manners, patience, confidence, integrity, loyalty, a caring nature, mental and emotional stability, self-sufficiency, maturity and some creativeness.....Whew...did I leave anything out?
There will be a strong element of friendship, bonding, attraction and chemistry between us. Beyond all of this..... I must like your style (this doesn't mean dress) this means your style of dominance. You will not be rude - but you will not be a push-over.
I'm a submissive who does not want to be smothered or micro-managed. With that in mind, the dominant of my dreams may be single or attached in a vanilla relationship as long as he is local and there is adequate communication and real time contact . If you are single...that's nice!... maybe we can enjoy some vanilla activities together as well. If you are attached in a vanilla life, I can live with that but you must be able to spend some free time with me and be able to communicate on a somewhat regular basis. No cybering and No traveling salesmen!
You must be sure of your sexual identity and be straight...I have NO INTEREST in bisexual men.
My vanilla interests include most all types of music, arts and humor. I enjoy cooking and have an interest in gardening, traveling and keeping up with current events. I'm divorced (8 years now) and have 2 children - ages 21 & 17, I work full time and own my home.
Physically - I am 49 yrs old.
I have a bit of extra padding or junk in the trunk that I'm trying to get rid of 
I'm 5'6", hair color is reddish blonde and long and I have blue eyes and pale skin.
I can dress up or dress down as the occasion requires.
I smoke but am a polite, considerate smoker and can refrain from it as necessary.
Physically - You will be around my age and be reasonably attractive, clean and disease-free.
You need not look like a star athlete or a male model...I usually don't care for those types anyhow.
A bit of extra padding is fine - but not real heavy.
I don't mind if you are bald on top...sometimes I find bald men to be sexy!
The one thing I don't like, however, is an over grown bushy mustache or beard - in fact I can't stand them. A closely trimmed goatee or mustache is fine but I don't want to be looking at a mess of scruffy, shaggy facial hair while worrying about the possibility of finding various forms of animal and plant life living within the bush on a guy's face.
Does the dominant of my dreams exist?
If you are reading this and think we may have some common ground, please feel free to introduce yourself and say hello by sending an email with your thoughts.
Perhaps it could be the beginning of a magnificent and beautiful long term journey.
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