My Ideal Person:
Right now, I'm testing the waters so to speak, looking to make new friends for fun and/or more. Must be a single male, (sorry not into women) not looking for a wham bam thank you ma'am. I want a friend with benefits , if it turns into more than great, if not that's great too. I looking for someone to laugh with and it's not all about sex. Thou sometimes it can be.

Need to get to know you and see if the chemistry is right and we are each comfortable with each other.

I have been in threesomes (M/M/F) and moresomes and have experienced/stumbled upon some bondage, flogging, restraining, etc and have discovered so far that i like it. Upon each encounter I have gone a little bit further and have found some aspects of it that I didn't like and my partner respected that. I would like to explore that aspect of my personality more.

I have a demanding job and 3 children who live at home. Sometimes I can go and do stuff at the drop of a hat, other times I need more time to plan.