I do wish to learn and explore more about BDSM, more I think I would like a friend, mentor and teacher than much else.
I have a preference to older men hmmm 40+ sounds about right, normally around 50 works best for me.
I expect more out of a relationship then just sex, not saying sex is not important to me it is, but it is not and can not be everything. Yes if you have met me in chat I can more than understand why you might think otherwise. I like to hang out in chat with people I have gotten to know there. Yes with some I can be quite outrageous and flirting does not quite cover it. That said I am playing and joking around with friends it is my escape and my stress release.
I am serious about learning more about this lifestyle, just have not found someone locally I choose to grow and learn with. I am not just wanting to experience or be used by someone. I honestly wish to learn, to understand. Some areas only interest me from a submissive point of view some I would like to study and learn then be taught from a more Dominant side. It would depend on who I am learning from to what degree and what areas I wish to learn about. Whips for instance no way I would want one used on me but I would so love to learn and be taught, trained how to use them safely and with skill by someone who would be a skilled and patient instructor and teacher.
I do not cy ber nor do phone sex, discuss my interest and yours sure but really if I am going to do something it will not be on the computer or by phone. Please respect that even if you interest me as a friend if I say no I mean it.
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My Ideal Person:
Honest, patient, good communication skills, knowledgeable in the BDSM and a willingness and ability to share, teach, mentor and instruct in areas and to the level I wish to explore and learn from that person.
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