I'm a relatively new sub - naturally more comfortable when submissive, but still learning what my specific likes and dislikes within BDSM are. My main goal is always to please my partner, but the partner has to be someone who has earned my respect and submission. I love being bound, blindfolded, spanked and played with, just as much as I like to be taken care of in the "pampered" sense.
Looks-wise, I'm on the small size of being a BBW, very busty, and my dark brown hair just about goes to my waist. I'm very girly, blush easily, and am very shy when I first get to know people. Once I get more comfortable, I'm much more chatty. General interests of mine include crocheting, crafty stuff, upkeeping my house, vintage/50's style decor and, of course, being with my family or my Daddy.
I'm also working on starting a home-based business right now, so my time is limited and free-time is reserved for family, Daddy, and sleep. If you've sent me a message or invite and I haven't gotten back to you, please be understanding (^_^).
***IMPORTANT!!!***
I am married - I will not hide that fact nor will I discuss my marriage if I do not know you well. My husband knows of my partners, I'm not doing this behind him back.
Currently, I have been getting to know (and been played with by) a wonderful Dom and hope to earn the title of being His Favorite. He's been everything I've hoped to find - honest, open, witty, caring, communicates well without treating me as if I'm stupid, and is very talented with the toys He's used on me. He's taken His time to make sure I am comfortable and feel safe, yet still pushes me. I'm always very aware that I'm there for His use and I want my body to be for His enjoyment, but He also helps me keep my head on right and is interested in me as a person. He's been everything I could hope for, and I hope that He thinks the same of me.
I also have a couple of friends/play partners and am open to more if that's the way a friendship develops. I DON'T submit or play casually - we have to have a connection on another level. Unless you are Ken Watanabe - then we can play whenever and however
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My Ideal Person:
At the most, right now I am just interested in making friends. "Friends" in more of the vanilla sense, NOT "Friends" in the "I'm looking for casual sex" sense.(^_^) Mostly because I like to get to know people before submitting or taking things to a play level - but I'm open to it if that's how the friendship develops.
I like people who are real, honest, and clear in their wants and expectations but not pushy, arrogant, or rude about it. I like when people don't take themselves too seriously, but who also know when it's important to be serious. I'm very shy and like to slowly feel out my boundaries as I get to know a person, and my "ideal" person would understand that. Most of all, my "ideal" person would be someone who loves life and looks at it realistically but optimistically.
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