I truly hope I won't regret just posting those photos.
I am easy-going, but prefer socializing with those who challenge me intellectually. I don't mean that snobbily, it's just that I am often frustrated by what seems to be the dumbing-down of America and the lazy minds of my fellow citizens. Arousal begins in the mind and I find intelligence a turn-on. That said, I also like a man with a dry wit and who doesn't always take himself too seriously.
I am new to the bdsm scene other than looking at naughty pictures online, but am beyond tired of being sexually unfulfilled in the vanilla world and am hoping to learn more about why I turn to thoughts of bondage and domination when I need to get off. I would like to find a dominant male partner willing to initiate me into the scene, but I don't think I am going to be into any hardcore pain. Oddly enough, I have never done any internet dating--this alternative lifestyle site is my introduction to meeting people online, so I apologize in advance if I don't know the etiquette.
I am in good health and getting fitter and enjoy a hard body as much as the next girl, but it isn't a deal breaker. I am about 10 lbs overweight by my calculations, but have big tits so maybe not... I work out roughly two to three times a week, mostly playing tennis or doing time in the weight room. I generally keep myself shaved/trimmed and kinda like guys to do the same. Stray hairs during oral stuff can be off-putting. I really like for a man to shave me.
I have a fair amount of sexual experience, but not much of it has been really very satisfying. I suspect I am trying too hard with the wrong partners. I enjoy being spanked (not too hard!) and would like to be tied up/restrained and played with. I like the idea of being bound and helpless, overwhelmed and at the mercy of another's desire, ravished, but I also need the cruelty to be tempered with affection. I love kissing and being kissed, be it a hard, demanding, punishing, possessive kiss or the slow, soft, gentle contact of some nebulous deeper emotion. Hmm. Fast and hard, slow and gentle. It seems I want it all. No pressure, though. ; )
I am enthusiastic at performing oral sex, but would like to be more so in receiving it. I also have a fair number of fantasies that I would like to play out. I have never grown out of my enjoyment of playing dress-up, so it is highly likely I'd want some sort of costuming to be involved. I have one or two fantasies involving dominating a guy, but mostly I think about being properly dominated myself.
I enjoy being photographed and while not yet totally comfortable with a video camera, have done a little of that also. I like dirty talk, but, regrettably, am uncomfortable doing it over the phone and vastly prefer dirty texting or dirty instant messaging. Yes, despite my best efforts, I still have a number of sexual hangups and could use help in conquering them.
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