I am no longer looking. I have met someone who excites me and calms me. Someone who leads me and walks beside me. He is much more than I had hoped for and I consider myself a very, very lucky girl. He is Neo_AZ and I'm proud to say that I am his.
I would still love to meet people. I'm allowed to give big hugs in cyber and in real life - so watch out! LOL. I still hang out in the chatrooms (Master/slave or Southwest), but just not as often. If you are local, then please join the local BDSM community for coffee on Thursdays in Tempe, Arizona. I would love to see you there and give you a hug!
sepho
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This is just to let all my friends know that I was diagnosed with thyroid cancer on 4/30/09. I am perfectly fine with talking to people about this, but I'm writing this so that the chat room isn't always just filled with this news. Now you can come here for any updates!
They removed half the thyroid to diagnose and now that they have discovered that it is cancer, they will be going in to remove the rest in early June (after I recover from the first operation)
They caught it early and it has not spread beyond the thyroid. I am doing fine with this news. I had lymphoma (cancer of the lymph nodes) in 1992 and received a massive amount of radiation treatment for it. I have a very elevated risk of other cancers because of that - but, then again, I'm alive because of that as well - lol.
I can definitely say that it is a bummer to be recovering from a painful operation knowing that in 6 weeks, I have to go through the same thing all over again. Ah, well!
Check again in a few weeks, I'll add some more about what happens after the surgery.
I made it through cancer before, and I can do it again! Thank you for your love and support!
sepho
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Old Profile
Attractive. Ph.D Engineer. 5'3”, 145 pounds 34D bust. Womanly/Curvy/Figure-8 body. Very humorous, very intelligent and very creative.
I'm a domineering woman by day, but in the bedroom? I have never been anybody's sub before.
I want a very strong dominant. I want you to make me yours. I am looking for a long-term relationship with a real life Dom who lives close by. I want my introduction to BDSM to be a deliciously slow process - so if you aren't close, you are likely to rush me during infrequent visits.
I do not like pain. I am into the BD part of BDSM, not the SM part. Later on, I might want to explore sensual pain, but if you are a sadist, then I am not for you.
The strongest dominant in a room is not the one that can only dominate the weakest. If you need me to be weak and submissive 24/7, in public, or around your vanilla friends, then you are not strong enough or confident enough to dominate me.
Since I'm new to this, the first question I face is "what am I looking for" I'm not completely sure, but I know where I want to start. Bondage and domination at a level that both you and I agree is good for me. Not too tame and not too scary.
I communicate clearly, honestly, calmly and logically. I will respond best to someone who can and will do the same with me. If your primary form of getting upset is to blow up and go into a tirade, then pass me by
Please review my Fetish Checklist because it gives my first best guess about how I feel about many of the elements of BDSM. If we continue to talk then I will want to review a much more detailed checklist with you. I am interested in many things, but I would like to be comfortable in a long-term relationship before I try some things.
I have become overwhelmed by the number of people I am meeting and the amount that I am learning. I am very excited about starting - but that excitement could cloud my judgment. Since I don't want the start of my exploration of this lifestyle to go badly, I need to go slowly and choose wisely. If you want to rush me, then you don't understand me and shouldn't be my Dom anyways.
This is not a test, trick or contest to see who can pressure me into deciding. This is a boundary that I have set. If you can't respect it, then please pass me by. We will go slowly - NO PLAY until we formally agree.
sepho
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