First of all, you need to understand that bdsm is NOT My way of life - it's more of an interest that I absolutely love and enjoy. Like the majority of you, I have many real life responsibilities including a full-time job in a professional field (with occasional overtime), kids (teens) who live with Me, a home to take care of, and all of the other basic responsibilities that are a part of most people's everyday life. Thus, I only have so much time to enjoy bdsm activities (including all of the things which lead up to an initial encounter), although I wish I had more time! So, if you're looking for a Fem/Dom or Domme who is a professional and lives (or works) for nothing else, then I suggest you consult the yellow pages, because I do have a real life, and other responsibilities that must come first (damn).
Of course, that doesn't mean that bdsm isn't a very integral part of My life - it just means that there are only so many hours in each day, and life's necessities have to be prioritized accordingly.
I'm open to new things, and I'm looking for people to share life's journey with, as one never really knows where life will lead, so we can only continue on with the journey and enjoy to the fullest the company we are with at any given moment in our lives. I believe that the best relationships are the ones in which each person enhances the life of their partner in a positive way, and a relationship which allows each partner to grow without expectations or wanting to control the life of the other person (at least outside of the bedroom!)
I've had the opportunity to enjoy several years of experience administering CBT, bondage, corporal punishment and other sensual experiences on My male partners who essentially topped from the bottom. Now I'm enjoying relationships with partners who enjoy being topped by a Fem/Dom - those who aren't afraid of letting a woman be in control and/or who enjoy switching occasionally, if not 100% of the time.
I consider Myself an "Ethical Slut" and believe that no one person can fulfill all of the needs or desires of their partner. I also see recreational sex (outside of - or in addition to - just being with a significant other) as more a sport than an encounter that might lead to an emotional attachment.
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My Ideal Person:
I'm hoping to experience quality encounters with other free spirits who are interested in expanding their horizons and those who really enjoy life in general (no hang-ups please, although I do realize that everyone comes into any kind of relationship with some baggage) - and a good sense of humor is a MUST.
As far as playing, I feel that there must be a mutual attraction between 2 (or more) parties for a truly fulfilling experience in situations where any sexual play is involved. I'm not a "10" and I don't expect you to be either, but I do prefer college educated, employed, hygenic and articulate partners who are at least nominally attractive and HWP and who truly have a sense of humor.
In addition, I'm also a stickler for good grammar and sentence structure, so take the time to write an articulate email, if you are serious about having Me send a personal reply.
Once an initial on-line connection is established, I would expect you (whether you are single or a couple) to send an UPDATED (this means no more than 2 years old) facial and full body pic that I can actually see, and we can exchange pics. If you send me a photo that is 10 yrs old, then you won't like the consequences when and if we meet.
My interest is primarily in occasional NSA play, with the understanding that I believe in honesty with all of my partners. At this point in my life, I'm not necessarily looking for a LTR, but if it happens and I meet my soul mate, then I would be ecstatic. If this sounds interesting to you, then drop me a line.
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