I'm polyamorous. I'm in a full time relationship with a dominant man. I was 12 years old the first time a girl made a pass at me and asked me to have sex with her. Women have chased me all my life. I've been avidly interested in some women I've met, but it seems I have a penchant for being attracted to the unavailable woman to date.
I'm seeking to change that.
I'm a switch in case you haven't noticed this about my profile. I have had long term relationships in which I was the dominant and others in which I was the submissive. Both full time and part time relationships. I can be happy in either role full time. For me, love informs the nature of my full time power exchange...and from there, I seek another relationship to give my personality and heart its full expression.
If you are paying attention, you'll have noted that I'm in a full time relationship just now as a submissive, so I'm seeking to express my dominant nature with a submissive woman. But I want a woman with spice to her nature. I want passion, intelligence, spirituality, kindness, generosity, experience and comfort with polyamory, sensuality not just sexuality and an interest in the deep friendship that makes girl/girl relationships so precious and needful.
I am not looking to put a woman in my man's bed. This relationship is primarily to bring a beautiful experience I've always, always wanted into my life, but would I enjoy it if a triad formed? Yes! You would be subject to his dictates outside of intimacy with me. Yes! I would be happy to be able to share that beautiful experience of a threesome with my Dominant and my submissive because ultimately I want a triad in my life and I want it to be with a woman we are both in love with...in which case, you would become O/our submissive, not just mine.
Ultimately, I'm looking for a woman who isn't a man hater and who would deeply respect and accept the dominance of my Sir.
My way of dominating others is more from the perspective of mentor and guide. I don't do the traditional bitchy domineering woman in leather and high heels with a whip thing. Not my style at all.
I have some opinions about communication. Perhaps you'll want to read this: A Word of Advice
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My Ideal Person:
If there's one thing that leaves me cold about other women it's competitiveness and jealousy. I don't like bitchy and catty women either. I don't enjoy gossiping and judgment, nor do I like it when women are obsessive about their environment and relationships.
I love a woman who is cuddly, smart, generous, kind, open-hearted, spiritual, sensual...above all very sensual. I want a woman who wants to pamper and primp and wait on me. God I love to have my hair and body washed and I love massage. I want a spa partner for sure.
Be passionate, experienced with submission and with polyamory and with women. Be avid to be a pile of girls on the bed, giggling and talking late into the night about deep things and silly things. I want a woman who gets me about how peaceful inner stillness is and who knows what the terms 'mirror' and 'Beloved' mean. I want a woman who loves the outdoors and art.
You'll be expected to come to me, so have reliable transportation and the income to make a commute if you have to.
I'm looking for a long term relationship, not a fling, nor satisfying curiosity, so be open to that eventuality.
I prefer a woman whose kink tugs her toward seeking a Domna's ownership of her sexuality. I am not looking for a pure masochist. I'm looking for someone who likes pain mixed with pleasure and I'm interested in a service and sexual slave.
I like to look at beautiful women. My idea of beauty is not Barbi, but it is certainly slender and perky. I love curvy, slim women, especially red heads and brunettes. I love a woman with big, deep, soulful eyes and a mouth made for kissing. I like a woman to appear very feminine and to have a submissive, though also very saucy demeanor and personality. That's a unique combination that really melts my butter.
I don't care for alot of piercings, nor alot of tattoos, though both are beautiful if they are tasteful. I prefer that people and myself blend seamlessly with the vanilla world and that their dress and social demeanor reflect this all the time. I don't want to be called Mistress all the time as that's outside the scope of that seamless thing I speak of.
As for kinks and other activities...that's all stuff for later. Make friends with me first, then we'll get to the rest.
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