My Ideal Person:
I love men. I love the flex of a muscle just under the skin, that hardness which is so different from a woman. I love the way a man’s waist narrows to the hip and that smooth flat plane just above his cock. I love the feel of a man’s skin under my hands. I love the way a man can walk into a room and change everything. I love that a man can think of things that I never could think of and that thing might be perfect for that situation because it adds a masculine touch.

I am interested in building ongoing, even long term friendships with men that include exploring BDSM and D/s in a playful, yet intense way. My play is sensual, so you may expect this relationship to have a sexual element to it. I stress being friends because there is an element of care and trust involved with being friends. Might there be a long-term relationship one day? That can never be ruled out, but is something that may develop over time.

I am an intelligent complex woman. Dominant, powerful, gentle, loving, fierce, and that's is not all. All those things are sexual and do not include many other parts that make me the woman I am. I love truly dominant men who like dominant women and are confident enough to sometimes just take what they want. I do expect a man to have enough respect for himself to take care of his body. I look for a certain self-knowledge and self-analysis. I want a man to understand himself and understand what he is looking for. I want him to have given this a great deal of thought. I look for someone who believes they have self-worth. If you don't think you have anything to offer, then why should I think you do?

I must trust you not to push me beyond set limits, yet at the same time realize that we may try to expand our boundaries just a bit. You may trust that I will be truthful with you always, whether it is about whether or not I like what we are doing or about what is going on in my life.

It is one of the great truths that I have discovered about BDSM play that a relationship is most fulfilling when you find someone who wants to play the same way you do. Do I seek a man who wants an abject slave, a drone, a brainless sexual toy? Definitely not. I am not into heavy pain and reject any attempt at humiliation. If this profile offends you, if I am not “hard core” enough for you, if my idea of the “lifestyle” doesn’t fit yours, please feel free to ignore me and move on. I am not here to judge….