I an curious and shy, yet brash about what I want and will accept. I know my limits and I want to push them, in everything I do. Sex is an outlet, and physically very needed and fun, yet this is not just about the physical, it is about who I am and what I am capable of as a person. It is about being around those who get sometimes potential must be explored, and fear can tell us where to go next.
On what I feel should be a side note, yet comes up all the danged time on here; I do not cyber on a first meeting. Don't bother asking or playing in that way. I use the internet to get to know someone, not to fake erotic. I also do not do phone sex on a first meeting, so again, don't bother asking. Both types of play are something I have done in the past, found yawningly empty, unless you were playing with someone you already care about. Since I don't know you, yet, I don't give a flying fuck if you have a fantasy about me sucking your cock, etc. If you cannot be a person with a brain outside your genitals for a while, I don't want to talk to you.
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My Ideal Person:
Ideally - two guys in a commited relationship as into each other as they are into a woman. These two guys are looking for a woman to fit into thier life, add new balance, touch and ideas to the relationship.
Since in my experience that is fantasy left on the page, I would be over the moon happy with someone who loved me for me, loved to touch and be touched, and knew how to push my limits and thier own. A guy comfortable with himself, his body, and his sexuality. I find I have trouble respecting someone who wants to play with two women, and refuses to touch a man, so bi-sexuality is a big plus.
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