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honeysucklecrush  
Creative Career and Very Special? Closeted, GL CD? ISO Bendover BFF
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Member Since: February 3, 2009

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Information:
Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   January 1, 1971
(39 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   New York, New York, United States
Relocate?:   Prefer not to say
Height:   5 ft 4 in / 162-165 cm
Body Type:   Average
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   Prefer not to say
Education:   Some grad school
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English
Hair Color:   Red
Hair Length :   Long
Eye Color :   Prefer not to say
Glasses or Contacts :   Prefer not to say


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   Age Play; Anal Sex; Ass Play; Biting; Blindfolds; Bondage; Chastity Devices; Collar and Lead/Leash; Cross Dressing; Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears); Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons); Discipline; Domination; Exhibitionism/Sex In Public; Hair Pulling; Handcuffs/Shackles; High Heels; Humiliation; Lace/Lingerie; Master/Slave; Masturbation; Mutual Masturbation; Oral Sex; Pantyhose/Stockings; Participating in Erotic Photography; Power Exchange; Role Playing; Spanking/Paddling; Talking Dirty; Toys; Voyeurism; Whips
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Dominant
Level of Experience:   Six months to a year
Dress:   Other
Social Orientation :   Liberal
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Breast Size: Prefer not to say
Pubic Hair: Prefer not to say
Marital Status: Single
Have Children: No
Want Children : Maybe
Occupation: film/game design
Religion: Spiritual

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39 year old Woman in New York, New York, United States Looking For: Men for active participation

Profile for honeysucklecrush
The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed." Carl Jung

(Profile is in states of deconstructed construction.)

I identify as a Goddess/Mistress, Emancipatrix of Sluttitude. I see myself as a facilitator of gender-role switching. That is, I'm a benevolent dic(k)tatress in service of alpha male sexual feminization and female sexual masculinization. I feel powerful in my role as a dominant woman, sexually. The democracy and liberation of this kind of play is intoxicating to me on so many levels and translates into more powerful self-expression in daily life.
I'm an attractive, intelligent, sensual heterosexual woman with some strong pangs for a handsome-by-day, intelligent, special man who wants his feminine side to be completely accepted and nurtured. I fell in love with a great guy who showed me a few things about the beauty of power exchange with me as the top. I don't consider myself to be a stereotype of any kind, ie, I'm not a domme, not a pro, and I'm very feminine. But I also don't want to be submissive, sexually, as the default role by which most cultures dictate female sexuality. I would love a daughter, girlfriend, and a long-term, openly communicative, committed relationship centered around mutual emotional, creative, intellectual and sexual exploration. Not looking for a fling or to be someone's fuck-buddy, but like the idea as role-play within a solid and loving friendship/companionship. Dating, sharing interests is important to me. I work in a creative field and am very open-minded, passionate, ready to get to know you and share an exciting journey.

I want to leave each relationship better than I came to it. I expect the same.

If the sum of our parts make us greater than we are individually, the relationshp is sustainable.

I am equally into BDSM and vanilla sex.

Please tell me about yourself.

Pictures are also welcome.

Ciao and enjoy this amazing day.

en femme, lingerie, panties, panty, CD, cross-dresser, love, girlfriend, girlfriends, bi, bisexual, bi-curious, stockings, garter, sub, submissive, trust, intimacy, relationship, spanking, domme, femdom, stockings, pantyhose, male g-spot, pegging, strap-on [if255 1]

My Ideal Person:
I know this is an unusual request to post on alt.com as I'm not looking for anything casual. It just doesn't seem to fit conventional "women seeking men" online profiles and I'm guessing there might be men looking for a more stable and ongoing relationship with a real woman who's into watching/engaging in erotic play with men who have a closeted femme side.

I'm highly intelligent, creative and gorgeous, seeking an extraordinarily, spectacularly loving, creative CD/bisexual man for a serious, long-term life partnership.

It's not just that I love watching my handsome/gorgeous man performing your day job with the appreciation I'll express for your masculine side, but that I'll love you at home in your nightie, panties, as my girlfriend, daughter, sister, best friend.

I want an emotional, erotic and companionate partnership with you. I want us to meet at Babeland and spend hours there educating ourselves about the male g-spot so I can give you the experiences you crave. I have some facility with a pegging/bendover boyfriend relationship with a previous lover, and I *loved* pleasing him.

Gentlemen, I am a rare woman. I understand that women who desire men en femme, or bisexual, are not terribly common. Especially uncommon are intelligent, well-educated, beautiful, open-minded women with a lot to offer outside of the Agent Provacateur dressing room.

I am very down-to-earth but love dressing up, and love my man to look as good as I do when we indulge each other.

Let's indulge each other. I want to love you and please you for the rest of our lives.

You're ideally 35-50, in good shape/on the slim side, very attractive, highly intelligent, and want to romance me as I want to romance you.

Respondents who can answer these questions will be considered seriously and receive a reply:

1) What would our first date entail?

2) What is your career and where do you live?

3) Favorite music? Film? Books? Activities?

4) Favorite lingerie?

5) If we're in a committed relationship, would you enjoy exploring our mutual bi-curiosity with others on occasion? (This isn't a priority for me at this time, though if our relationship was secure, supportive, trusting and dynamic/creative, I would consider it if such a mutual curiosity/desire arose.)

Photos appreciated, but your responses are more important at this stage.

Please note, I am a genetic female, not a dude, not transgendered. Also please note: while I really wish my man to have a distinct femme/CD side, because it turns me on, makes me happy, and adds an extra dimension of trust/intimacy to our relationship, I don’t think I could get into an extreme femdom role wherein I would regularly inflict *excessive* pain and humiliation. I have a desire to explore the role of stern mistress in a trusting/safe roleplay situation. And if you’re turned on by the idea of pleasing me and making me happy, I will make you very happy, both sexually and emotionally.

I look forward to hearing from you!


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