I have finally found the sub that I have been looking for. It took me a while to find the man that meets all my requirements and expectations, but he has met them all.
I have a little bit of experience with B&D, and D&s. I've decided to look for more than a cyber sub and am now looking for a sub for ongoing play. I am married and intend to remain married, so discretion is a must. He must be able to play once every week or two at night or on weekends. He must be single and willing to serve me and only me. No married men or men in other relationships, I know that's a double standard but I don't like sharing my men. This would be an ongoing Domme/sub relationship that could last indefinitely. This relationship will start out online and then become real time. He must live in or near Omaha or be willing to relocate to Omaha. He must be able to host scenes or pay for hotel rooms for our scenes.
I'm not into anything hardcore, I expect someone to serve me first and foremost. I have needs and desires that my sub must meet. I enjoy light bondage and tease and denial among other things that I would like to explore (read my checklist to find out more). I am not a sadistic Domme, I seek the power that comes from a sub's willing surrender rather than his fear of pain.
FYI I think of myself as a queen and expect to be treated as such. However, I'm not a goddess nor do I want to become one. So respect, cherish, serve, and submit to me; but I don't want to be worshiped.
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My Ideal Person:
I have collared my ideal person and made him Mine.
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