My Ideal Person:
Ideal doesn't exist which really sucks if truth be known lol. Women have a way of creating unrealistic fantasies...a little Jack Bauer (but much taller)...a little Gerard Butler (rugged and those Abs!) a little George Clooney...and of course intelligence and intense dominance (ok, maybe that last part applies only to me lol.) The good thing is I realize this is a fantasy, and while a damn good one at that, I don't have those expectation in real life. In fact, the most important things in reality are trust, respect, and communication. Attraction comes in many forms and it's subjective for everyone. For me, it's the mind. If I respect and trust, I love and give 100%. To give is also to give up control and trust I'll be protected. To be controlled is both sexual and intellectual...the man that has the voice that can be so soft and gentle or demanding and loud, both capable of achieving the same result. The words that make you want to run, but draw you back every time. The man that can push limits safely but still push and push. The man that is mature and intelligent enough to let me be myself and not treat me like property or look down. That man is the the true fantasy. The protector, the savior, the Master, and yet the equal.
Unfortunately and ironically, neither are attainable...but it's fun looking!! lol