My Ideal Person:
Actually having just one ideal person doesn't seem so easy I like variety and don't have one ideal person that I can be with all the time, I need changes, although there are some are that I find myself having more fun with that other.

i don't know where else to put these details, so i thought here might be good enough.

i am not a trained sub. i've always felt naturally a sub. it is what i am comfortable with and what i want to be. i find myself being attracted more and more to older people. it doesn't mean only, but more than average. it is not only a purely physical basis. besides being very attractive there is something about the lines of the face, the touch of the skin, it just appeals to me. older lovers do also tend to be more relaxed and not so hungup over everything as well. i've been asked just how old am i looking for? the answer is usually older the better. i am still looking for that special octogenarian. there is such a secret joy when i can give up control of myself to another, it is a blissful experience i believe only another sub may feel. sorry you didn't read anything about whips, chains, and leather, but i believe there are deeper, more intense means of control a sub can enjoy, well at least for me anyway.