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Southern woman (just moved to Philly from NJ)in July. I have been in the lifestyle for only 6 months but feel that i have not yet really been "in" the lifestyle. Currently i have a mentor who i use to bounce things off of and who i can use for a safe call. What i want is a serious LTR, in the lifestyle with 24/7 power exchange, living together, the whole ride so to speak. i want someone who is in to this in the most real way, knows the protocols, knows the 'rules' we live by that allow everyone to be safe and have wonderful kinky fun. if You do not know what safe words are, what is sub-drop, sub-space, aftercare, and are not ready for the gift i have to give then enjoy yourself but please pass me by. i want a man who is a strong, masterful dominant both in the bedroom and out. who understands that i do not have to be owned but that i want to be and values my gift just as i will value his.
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My Ideal Person:
my ideal lover is a strong Dominant who has been in the lifestyle and desires to lead me in my pursuit of expanding and deepening our sexual experience. i also love to do almost anything so get ready to plan trips or just drop everything, hop in the car and ride until we get tired, find a nice place to stay the night and perhaps come home the next day. i love to read, learn, discuss and expand my knowledge and this person needs to enjoy the intellectual side of a relationship as well as the physical. cuddling, hugging, kissing, and being foolish are also requirements. i have grown children and expect them to be welcome on our home (but not unannounced!)if this is You please let me know. smokers please do not feel offended but it gives me migraine headaches and i have to ask you to respect my boundary on that issue.
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