What to say, what to say
Ive been doing this for several months now and when I first started I didnt have an agenda beyond meeting people and finding good lovers. Its been hit or miss. Some have been totally unremarkable, some have been spectacular. And now Im starting to hone my focus and really get what I want out of the Adult FriendFinder thing.
Im a hypersexual creature, in other words, Im a total slut; however, dont mistake me for easy or indiscriminate. Im particular about what I want and the emphasis here is on quality over quantity. Im looking for experiences that will leave a profound impression on me as a woman and a lover.
Sex for me really does start in the mind. I totally get off on mental foreplay and secrecy. Certain looks, gestures, glances, words, or even the tone of your voice are hotter foreplay for me than touch can be, but I do like physical affection. What Im trying to say is that you need to fuck my brain; make my brain horny and the body will follow. I have a lot of imagination and I like an engaged lover. Its about connection and sharing a moment with someone, however fleeting. We wont have any kind of relationship in real life (more on boundaries later), but when its me and you
the world fades. You will have undivided attention, and I want the same from you.
These days I really want a dom/daddy type (Ive been especially tender lately). I want a man that can indulge the little girl a bit, and fuck me raw...like the slut I am. Im sturdy, I can take it, I love it.
I recognize this implies BDSM or role play territory. Ive read about it and Im very curious, but totally inexperienced in that regard so be mindful that you may have to be patient as you educate me. If the chemistry is right, I will be your most devoted student.
The daddy fantasy is kind of personal- chemistry is imperative. I dont necessarily have expectations about you, rather Ill share what the little girl inside me likes and describe the kind of men that bring me to my knees
I like men who like women and dogs.
Tall-ish, at least 510.
I like strong arms, big hands, long fingers, and a deep gravelly voice.
Imagination and versatility, and just to clarify, I dont mean things like crazy positions, or some new way you learned to eat pussy while reading FHM or something, though thats fine. Rather, the ability arouse me mentally.
Ability to fuck with your eyes. I love love love eye contact during sex, thats how I know if a man is really into me or not. And I have been known to push men off of me if the chemistry is not there.
Older than me by more than a few years, but not old enough to be my old man. At least 38, no older than 51.*
Smarts. Brains are so so sexy. Laid back people who think differently and can navigate in interesting directions in the world- Live and let live types with decent morals.
A bit of swagger. If youve got it, you know it.
Special preference given to Cancer, Scorpio, Capricorn, Aquarius & Pisces. These fluctuate.
Oh, boundaries.
Im married and my husband and I have what you might call an open relationship. We do this kind of thing by keeping to a code of candor and consent from everyone involved. That means that if you are with someone and they dont know you fuck other people, you are not an option for me. So if youre married and the Mrs. doesnt know, its a firm NO. Im stubborn as hell about this.
I dont like my lovers to be a part of my normal life, it ruins the fantasy. So no frequent texting or emailing. Sex is escape, so while the relationship could be hot, it will be limited. Same with me, the best you can hope for is a woman you like to see for killer sex and a little companionship. Im not interested in your normal life. A little bit is ok but things like work, women and kids are not a part of this. I want to know you only as a man and as a lover. And you can trust me to respect your boundaries too. Safe sex always.
A bit about me:
Im 56, 148 lbs. Im a little thick, I guess you could say. Sweet curves, soft, I smell good. Everyone Ive ever slept with has loved my fat clit. Dark brown hair, deep brown eyes, fun to roll around with. I give up some excellent pussy, exceptional even, I have references. Suffice to say I have some awesome abilities and my orgasms are authentic. I know how to ask for what I want, I can take direction very well, I know how to move my body, I know how to make a man feel good. I think I ask for a lot in bed, but I give a lot too. Im Scorpio, way carnal.
So I hope that you have read through this and realized that Im smart, so I ask that if you want to send me a message, you have excellent taste in women! But send me something of a thoughtful response. I will roll my eyes and delete any of the following:
Hi, how are you today? (it tells me nothing of what you want)
Hey, wanna come over and ___? (for reals? what am I desperate?)
Pictures of your junk but not of your face. (Ive never been attracted to someones cock, but then again I havent slept with a black man yet, so that may change.)
So now that youve read through this, dont you just want to take me on your lap, wrap your arms around me and let me bury my face in your neck as you firmly slide your strong hands up my skirt and whisper in my ear how Im such a sweet girl and youre going to fuck me til I break, slide 3 fingers in my super wet pussy, stroke my g spot and make me gush all over your hand? Dont you daddy? Tell me what I can do to please you.
Let me be your little girl
* A note about age: the aforementioned age range is not a hard and fast rule; however, in the interest of full disclosure, men in their 20s bore me to fucking tears, plus theyre bad in bed and Ill tell you why, theyre sex-bots, meaning they cant relax and enjoy sex because they always have to be doing something and feel that their role is to provide women with ALL the pleasure. Its like they think sex is something that happens to you, or you do to somebody. Sex is something you do with another person. I know we all learn this eventually. Plus they lack the emotional maturity to have a truly NSA relationship. Men in their 30s
talk about indecisive. I havent had many positive experiences with them. They are better in bed, even the sex-bots, but they pull and they push and I feel like I never quite know where I stand, which is frustrating because even if the sex is great, its not worth it.
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My Ideal Person:
Someone who would like to get inside me.
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