This will be a long profile, but hopefully you will see something in it that intrigues you enough to want to learn more. Life is about learning and growing. If you’re here you enjoy sensual growth.
So pour yourself a glass of wine and settle in to view the surface of this complex being that I have scratched for you here. I'll show you mine so that you'll feel open to show me yours.
I am a couple. I am in a relationship with a lovely little pet and we play as a couple even though we both are "single". I know I’m losing a good number of you here, but this lifestyle is about being up front with goals, aspirations, likes and dislikes. WE are looking for Longer Term Relationships with couples and those elusive single ladies who like a bit of the darker side of eroticism.
I have a Dominant personality. My lady is my submissive. I have been called Dom, but I understand that Dom is a title earned in a relationship between two or a select few, or it is a meaningless “toy-title” wielded as a rubber sword might be for a night of play-acting. Dominant is very different from domineering. I may become your “Daddy”, but you will never cower from me. John Warren wrote a book about “The Loving Dominant”, and I believe I fit that description very well.
My pet is an assertive lady who has found a joy in submission. She does so for me alone. She will be equal in submission for our erotic play. Would you be a sister-sub?
The journey as an Alpha begins for all of us who are well before someone applied that label. At some point we became aware that the label existed and that we fit its description. That awareness came to me from a female Domme who first saw me here on ALT over 7 years ago. She realized the potential for my growth as well as her pleasure and turned on a dime to become my submissive. My tutelage was “from the bottom” in the loving submission of a Domme to a man she called Master. There is nothing more sensual or more meaningful than the gift of one’s submission or one’s Dominance, but the gift of submission from one powerful soul to another is by far more meaningful than one who simply submits to the title. Being schooled by an accomplished female Domme gives one a somewhat different perspective than one might achieve from another male or stumbling around on your own.
As I said earlier I am in a relationship and we play as a couple only. BDSM for us is a sensual vehicle. Although it is quite possible to get adequate gratification from the mental and physical aspects of BDSM alone, when combined with sexual intimacies it becomes a springboard to significantly higher levels of gratification.
If you've read this far at least you’re intrigued. For those of you who say, ”Yes but he is older than I like”, I would say that age is just a number provided the heart and mind remain active and youthful. An actively kinky mind and a strong libido will trump 10 minutes of fucking every time. If you can still catch your breath and aren't bathed in perspiration after our get together, you’ve been cheated. Ask my lady. Originally she thought our age difference to be an obsticle. At 49 she's come dangerously close to heart attacks on numerous occasions. We'll do the same for you.
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My Ideal Person:
There is no set model for the object of this search. I am in a committed relationship, but WE have more than enough to share. She's as hungry as I am and eager to fall into that "sister-sub" role with you. WE are looking for intimate friends who enjoy physical contact. D/s and BDSM are not things that can be done well in e-space. Reaching sub-space doesn't happen without physical contact. We are looking for physical contact.
Looks are import to us, and I hope they are to you as well. Attraction begins with the physical appearance which allows for the close interaction to develop an emotional bonding. D/s and BDSM require trust and emotional bonding to get the full benefit. We are not looking to take the placed of your mate and you will not take the place of either of us, but some level of trust and emotional bonding will occur or we won't be playing very long. We want to play for a long wile.
My lady "flies" most evenings. If you yearn to "fly" as only one who relinquishes control can, write to me and WE will maybe rock your world.
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