Note: Please read my entire profile. If you do not take the time to read it, do not expect me to take the time to response to you. Effort rewards effort.
I am a 39 year old straight, Black, Full-Figured (300lbs) submissive living in the inner city limits of Washington, DC. I am an introvert (& INTJ) who thrives in 1-on-1 or small intimate moments with close friends versus group gatherings. I am considered very dependable, honest, and loyal, I can also be serious, pragmatic, and extremely bull-headed (I am a Taurus after all). I am a professional analyst and paralegal with a bachelors in Psychology.
Before You Message or Read Further:
- My name is Resa, not girl, sub, slave, slut, or anything other than Resa;
- I am a real woman and not a stereotype; so, forget any preconceived notions you may have about how I should act because I am submissive, Black, or overweight. Do note that I am proud of who I am as an individual and not as some assigned category;
- I have genital herpes and for safety reasons I will abstain from sex until i am in a committed relationship;
- I am extremely detail oriented. If you have no depth and very little to say -- beyond kink -- in a message or in conversations, I will not be interested;
- I am ONLY seeking committed relationships based on friendship and shared time in vanilla and kink interests;
- I am a fruit fly: a straight female who prefers to hang with bi/gay men and also who loves to watch (and dreams of joining in with) bi/gay guys having sex with guy;
- I only derive pleasure from play and sex while in a caring vanilla & kink relationship with a Dom/Master. Outside of that, I derived ZERO enjoyment from sex and play devoid of emotional attachment); thus I am asexual and very disinterested in swingers and NSA play partners;
- I am only interested in single, fully divorced, or widowed men. Having a male partner is the exception; otherwise, this is non-negotiable;
- I am only interested in resident people local to the DC area (not visitors);
- I am only attracted to Asian, Caucasian, and Native American men (it's not about looks but about common interests and acceptance);
- I do not need strangers to flatter me as an icebreaker, I rather you show we have some common interests or views; and
- MOST OF ALL I am more than my kinks; so if you really want to know more about me, visit FetL and read my writings, or just stop in the Maryland/Virginia Chat room to join in the conversations.
My Vanilla Interests:
World Traveling (been to Australia, Japan, Germany, England, Denmark and would love to visit Greece, Russia, Prague, and the Netherlands); Literature (Classics, Philosophical, Theological, Erotica, and Supernatural); Music (Primarily Japanese (Visual Kei) Rock & Downtempo: Acid Jazz and Trip-Hop; but also Opera, Classical, Alternative Rock, some Hard rock and some metal etc.); Discovering European cultures (that's why i have a thing for European men!); Arts (would love to visit art galleries, go to operas, and visit some interesting museums like the Spy Museum and the Native American Museum).
BDSM Interests (not expectations):
I have an interest strong interest in Total Power Exchange (TPE) and the Dominant/Sub and Master/Slave dynamics. I am also interested in bondage, collars, BDSM community events/Fetish balls, discipline, protocol, and service. Sexually I love watching men fuck men!! I also am curious to experience all combinations of double penetration (e.g. MFM, MMF) and triple penetration (i.e. MMMF). Please Note that I am NOT interested in race play, and that my willingness to explore other kinks is directly linked to how well I know & TRUST my Dominant/Master.
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My Ideal Person:
Regardless of what my dreams were or what I wish I could have one day, presently I am only seeking friends (no play nor sex) to hang out at both vanilla and kinky events.
The Unique Relationship I Wish I Could Have One Day:
My deepest desire is to be passionately cherished and owned (alongside a male slave) by a Bisexual Male couple (two Masters) who both care about me not for my looks, race, weight, or possessions but for my devotion and service. Our involvement would start with vanilla dates, build up to kinky activities and eventually a live together situation resulting a lifetime companionship in a M/Ss dynamic. Alternatively, it could be one bisexual Master with the ability to share within a protected environment.
Important Notes:
*If your profile is blank or inaccessible, I will not respond to your message, and I will block you so I do not receive additional messages. Simply put, I spent a lot of time writing who I am and I am only going to interact with open people. I don't feel the need to dig out basic facts about a person. - Instant Ignore.
*No I am not going to give you my phone number or direct IM after 500 characters or less exchanged via this site. I get that local people want to get right to knowing if a person is real. I am all for that too; I need to know you are not a troll or stalker, that you can converse, and more importantly that you are not going to waste our time meeting in other more direct forms of communication. If you think you are going to win me over by either (1) sending IM's talking dirty or wanting to CamSex, (3) flattering me by how much you love big black females, or (2) phoning me to jerk off while I am trying to hold an intelligent conversation (and yes people do try this crap), then let it be known now, that I will not be interested.
Before you approach me:
While I am a submissive, I am neither desperate nor easy. If you really want to show a sincere interest in me, read my journal entries and the additional information (below) I have shared on my interests. Then tell me: the vanilla interests you think we, what you like most about your current life (not kink) and what type of relationship are you honestly seeking with me.
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