PLEASE: Do read all the following. It's there for a good reason; I don't want to waste your time, and writing to people for whom you're not a match is a colossal time-waster.
I am tall and slender, with dark hair and eyes, fit, feisty, witty, strong-willed. I am very much into the spanking scene -- I have done several spanking videos (Shadow Lane, Spanking Epics, Northern Spanking, Sarah Gregory Spanking, etc.) and I love spanking parties. Love both public and private play. I stress that I'm not a submissive, because although I love to be spanked, I don't consider myself a sub personality. I like the power exchange -- the spirited struggle between strong, confident male and feisty female, where the male ultimately gains the upper hand, so to speak. But I am not interested in masters, daddies, teachers or trainers.
I am strictly a bottom -- I do not switch, and I play with males only. I am not looking for a relationship, since I am already in one, and have been for many years. However, he is OK with my playing with other men. I am also not seeking sex; I have found that true spanking enthusiasts understand that a spanking scene can be complete in itself, not a means to an end. If your idea of a spanking is to give me a few whacks and then demand a blowjob as your reward, sorry, I'm not your girl.
Please be honest -- show me a current photo, not you 20 years or 20 pounds ago. Since I am height/weight proportional, I would like you to be also. Yes, I'm picky. But I look for quality over quantity.
And just for future reference, I have a bottom, not an "ass." Just because a woman is kinky doesn't mean she has no class. Also, I may be older, but I'm NOT going to role-play as your mother. Don't even ask.
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My Ideal Person:
At this time, I have a regular play partner, so I am not actively seeking. But should that change -- and I know these partnerships can be fleeting, unfortunately -- I will leave my information up. New friendships are certainly welcome at any time. I love a good sense of humor, intelligence, creativity and above all, good manners! Would like to hear from men, in the general range of 35-50, who are into spanking, who may have attended any of the Shadow Lane parties or at least have heard of them. Please, no graphic sex chat, cyber anything, or submissive males.
VERY IMPORTANT: I want to see your face, not your dick. Please don't send me X-rated pictures. And if you write to me and your profile does not have a face pic, please attach one with your message. Fair's fair -- you know what I look like. 2/28/11: Just replaced all my photos with new ones. Yes, they are all quite recent, and yes, they are all of me.
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