I believe I am ready to start my search again after a few months of being out of a relationship but will do it slowly and carefully to find the right One again for me.
i do enjoy reading other sections on this site and corresponding with past acquaintances and those of a like-mind.
Thank You for reading my profile!
Ideally, I am seeking a single Caucasian male who is creative and intelligent and preferably local. Chemistry is key. The ideal age I have found from experience is someone my age or older. Someone who doesn't switch and identifies himself as only Dominant on this site. I am not seeking a health fanatic but someone who is height/weight proportional or a few extra pounds is fine as both physical and mental attraction are qualities I need to have with someone.
I am seeking a man who is interested in taking control of me both inside the bedroom and outside the bedroom to a certain degree. A relationship with more traditional male/female roles I guess is a good way of putting it. A relationship where i know my place and that place is to keep the man I am with happy and defer to his will. At the same time, I would be more to him than a social and sexual accessory; We would laugh, have fun and enjoy each others company exquisitely.
I do get pleasure from pleasing and I am eager to do whatever he likes once I respect and trust him. If I fail to do as his wishes, he will discipline me. I am happy to do anything that gets him excited within my limits and anyway he wants it is how I would want it too. I am a light to medium masochist who revels in being treated as a treasured (therefore extremely loyal, eager and loving) pet. Another major turn on that gives me that special feeling is being a good girl for my Daddy!
With all that was said in the previous paragraph to this one...I find I am mostly attracted to men who come off as more Vanilla in their profiles more so than the "Uber Dom" type. As it goes without saying, even in a D/s relationship, friendship is the cornerstone of the relationship or it won't last long at all. My preference is for the not so "out there" type. The type of Dominant man who is discreet about his interest in all that goes along with the letters BDSM reminds me of the saying "Still waters run deep"; it is so true.
I find the discipline and reward aspects of D/s a big turn on for me. I am a private person and not into threesomes, being shared, going to public BDSM type clubs or public exhibitionism. Also, it would be a waste of Your time and mine for You to contact me if You are seeking a polyamorous relationship and/or portray yourself in your profile as a trainer or mentor.
Some regular activities I enjoy are: Cooking, exercising, traveling, growing orchids and other exotic plants, listening to music (Blues music, Van Morrison and Led Zeppelin are a few favorites but there are too many to mention), visiting museums, movies, reading, gardening and dining out.
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