I am a 45-year-old attractive, divorced professional female/mom. I have been divorced for 9 years now and have a big need to start getting on with my life and enjoying myself. My children are with me most of the time, so it's difficult for me to get out and meet people. Actually, meeting people is easy. Meeting people with similar interests where sex is concerned is not so easy. I have always considered myself to be a somewhat submissive when it comes to intimacy. It wasn't until a few years ago that I discovered D/s on the internet and felt like "Hey, other people like this, too." I'm not looking for 24/7 D/s. Just a normal, loving, vanilla relationship with sort of a D/s twist. I love being told what to do and not knowing what will happen next when behind closed doors. I also still very much enjoy romance, as well as all of the cuddling and holding hands that goes along with it. I am not looking for someone to control my life. I do a pretty good job of that myself. I am seeking my equal, best friend, partner who can enhance my life and grow together as one.
I am not seeking someone who is addicted to Adult FriendFinder, Alt and other fetish sites. Seems like everyone I meet and like turns out to be a player. I want someone who is for real, seeking ONE special person. Not someone who still has a need to visit these sites once we start dating. I've been cheated on before and don't want to go there again. I want someone I can trust and find that impossible when the person I’m getting to know is still on the prowl on-line.
I would like to meet an HONEST, attractive male who is open-minded, down-to-earth and patient. Someone who is looking for a MONOGAMOUS relationship with one who likes to keep things exciting occasionally to keep the spice in our lives. This person must want to get to know me and become my friend and my lover. This person should not be married or otherwise attached. I am looking for my soulmate, not just a playmate. I have 2 kids at home ages 8 and 9 , so if this bothers you, go onto the next ad. Raising my kids in a healthy, safe environment is number one priority.
UPDATE: I have had a lot of people ask me to explain myself in more detail as to what I mean by being monogomous. This is quite simple. If you have the desire to get to know me after meeting and we are playing together, then I want someone who can maintain his urges to play with only me, as we are trying to pursue something together. Trust can only be built in this manner. Besides, I’m not looking for any STDs.
If we are chatting and decide to get together to fulfill a fantasy or play and have no intention of pursuing a relationship, then feel free to do as you wish.
Anyone I explore with, either fantasy or something more intimate, must be willing to practice safe sex. This is a definite hard limit.
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My Ideal Person:
A dominant male who is down-to-earth and patient – not a snob. Someone who is ultimately looking for a monogomous relationship with one who likes to keep things exciting to keep the spice in our lives. This person should not be married or otherwise attached. I am looking for my soulmate, not just a playmate.
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