My Ideal Person:
a wise person i know recommended that i update this profile. for a long time i figured i had nothing new to say about myself but upon reflection i have seen how much i have evolved since i first started exploring this type of relationship.

to begin i am more about the b/d and d/s of bdsm. i understand the role pain and discipline can play but the relationship i seek has more to do with a more subtle exploration of the corollaries of the mind and body. i am firm believer that anything physical is meaningless if the mind is not engaged and hopefully challenged.

it is my belief that a Dom creates a WORLD for his sub. This WORLD is an assemblage of place, time, rules and rituals that defines those who enter.

The WORLD i seek is philisophically based in art and design. i seek a Dom who is influenced by disciplines such as sculpture, architecture, industrial design and even dance. Bondage has many similarities to choreography - just with a lot less movement

i find that these influences are valuable because they all evolve through the processes of conceptualization, visualization, testing and improvement. This is important to me as i wish to be in a relationship where mistakes are productive and success is an impetus to improve even further...

my current interests in are in a Dom or Dom/sub couple. With a Dom i seek to experience and grow in His WORLD. With a couple i am more interested in mirroring the sub as an introduction to what BDSM has to offer.

my current dis-interests, i guess i should list them, are doms wayyyy into golf or motorcycles. i dont have a really good reason why except that it seems the cultures of those two passions are just too strong to compete against (and i don't care much for the wardrobes of either).

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PostScript: i dearly love my ballgag - it is simple, red, with a buckling leather strap - how do YOU silence your submissive?