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ca_je_a  
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Member Since: September 21, 2001

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Information:
Gender:   Woman
Birthdate:   September 28, 1946
(63 years old)
Astrological Compatibility
Lives in:   Grand Rapids, Michigan, United States
Travels to:   Coopersville, Michigan, United States
Relocate?:   No
Height:   5 ft 8 in / 172-175 cm
Body Type:   Ample
Smoking:   I'm a non-smoker
Drinking:   I'm a light/social drinker
Drugs:   I don't use drugs
Education:   Associate degree (2 years college)
Race:   Caucasian
Sexual Orientation:   Straight
Speaks:   English, none
Hair Color:   Brown
Hair Length :   Medium
Eye Color :   Blue
Glasses or Contacts :   Glasses


LifeStyle
Activities Enjoyed:   24/7 (Total Power Exchange); Age Play; Anal Sex; Ass Play; Biting; Blindfolds; Body Hair; Bondage; Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc.; Bukkake; Candle Wax; Chains; Chastity Devices; Chinese Balls/Ben Wa Balls/Anal Beads; Cling Film; Collar and Lead/Leash; Confinement/Caging; Cross Dressing; Cupping (Suction of the Skin); Dacryphilia (Arousal from Tears); Denim; Depilation/Shaving; Dildos (Handheld & Strap-ons); Discipline; Doctor/Nurse Fetish; Domination; Ears; Electrotorture (EMS TENS units); Exhibitionism/Sex In Public; Feathers; Fire Play; Fisting; Food Play; Gangbangs; Hair Pulling; Handcuffs/Shackles; High Heels; Humiliation; Klismaphilia (Douching/Enema); Knife/Needle Play; Lace/Lingerie; Lactation; Latex; Leather; Making Home "Movies"; Masks; Masochism; Massage; Master/Slave; Masturbation; Mutual Masturbation; Nipples; Oral Fixation; Oral Sex; Pain; Pantyhose/Stockings; Participating in Erotic Photography; Piercings; Pinching; Play Piercing; Pony Play; Power Exchange; Rack/Medieval Devices; Religious (Nunplay, Priestplay); Retifism (Shoes or Boots); Rimming; Role Playing; Rubber; Sadism; Scent; Sensory Deprivation; Spanking/Paddling; Talking Dirty; Tickling; Tongue Fetish; Toys; Vibrators; Voyeurism; Whips
I think about ALT lifestyle:   Once a day
Role:   Submissive
Level of Experience:   More than five years
Dress:   Casual
Social Orientation :   Liberal
Safe Sex:   Yes
Demeanor:   Average

Personal
Body Decorations : Earring(s)
Breast Size: 46+ / 105+ DD (E, if no DD)
Pubic Hair: Shaved
Marital Status: Divorced
Have Children: Yes. We sometimes live together.
Want Children : No
Occupation: Business (Management)
Religion: Protestant

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63 year old Woman in Grand Rapids, Michigan, United States Looking For: Men or Couples (man and woman) for erotic email exchange, Performing only (little or no contact) or active participation

Profile for ca_je_a
Sept. 13, 2004 updated 01/03/2010
Hello, thanks for checking out my profile. As i was updating some of my likes/dislikes i was amazed to see how much i have grown in the past 2 years!! The things i learned from my online Master, pale in the light of reality. i find that i love the more sensual side of BDSM, the use of abrasion gloves, knife play (especially bound to a cross, with Enigma playing), flogging, spanking, being "Daddy's" little girl. i have been called an "innocent incorrigible, with a smidgen of brat". Having been on my own, needing to be the decision maker for many years, i have to learn how to let go and let the Dominant take control. i find this a difficult task at times. i have been a participant at WhipStock for the past 3 years, have done a role play with Dossie Easton (i was a princess brat and she was the daddy king, lol), been put into shibari, experienced various floggers, the single tail, canes(this will be a hard limit for me), i love the feel of a crop on my nipples, but truly don't care to much for nipple clips, clamps etc. And yes, i know, if it is the wish of the Dominant/Master it will be. i am a work in progress, not young and not thin but i would bring maturity and great willingness to please to any relationship i would enter. i have been told i wear my heart on my sleeve, care to deeply to fast and therefore get hurt. Well, it's me. i will answer any question honestly, i have a problem with liars, as this is a lifestyle that needs trust at it's core. i have sympathy for any person in a marriage that doesn't support Ttheir needs, but i will not meet a married man, whose wife is not in agreement with the meeting. There are many people who are married to a non lifestyle person, but that spouse understands and is in agreement with the person playing with others to satisfy the need. Please do not contact me if you are married and your spouse does not support your need. i am an intelligent, well-read college graduate. I am Loyal to family and friends. A little rowdy at certain sporting events, lol. While i can be kind of a brat, at times, i would never, ever deliberately dishonor One who would claim me.
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carol
April 2005
i have been told that my profile pictures are mis-leading, due to the fact that i do not have long hair anymore. Please look at the picture of me with short hair, this is more what i look like now.

November 2005
This update is due. i've been a bottom for Vaara for the past year. He has taught me a great deal and is a great person. We have been taking it slow and i've found sides to me that i didn't know existed before. grins...... i'm a bit of a sam, but very respectful. Please see my updated fetish list. Laughing, He has made my purity score go down!!
11/2008
Where does time go? This journey with Vaara has been a wonderful one. He commands my mind with such ease. While i am still a bit of a Daddy's girl, due to some hard facts of life, this is no longer a prime thing for me. i know there is a part of me that will always be a little girl, but i can no longer be that for a "Daddy". Another thought from me....... rarely will i ever answer anyone sending me a profile with a penis or pussy on it. Sex is not my primary focus. That being said, it does not mean i do not like sex, simply that at the core of my being, it is not what i "live for". [if255 1]

My Ideal Person:
One that will take the time to explore all of the things i may be capable of. Who will understand the fears that i may have and honor my safewords.


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