I am called Shade.
I am a switch that is primarily dominant. I have a partner that is dominant-only, and thus am not seeking and will ignore any domlets that contact me seeking submission or submissive behavior from me. That is for him, and only him.
I have a r/l submissive puppy that I am currently embarking on training with - and I'm not really seeking any other play partners. My dance card for long term partners is filled, and casual play partners will be regulated to real life people that I know in person for an extended period of time (translation: several months) as friends first.
I enjoy foot worship, objectification, puppy/pony play, hair worship, ashtrays, bondage, female supremacy, edgeplay, sissification, abs, cbt, debasement and humilation, denial of sexual release, and whatever else appeals to my devious and sadistic imagination!
I will not tolerate lies. To do so means to my dismissal.
There is NO sexual activity of any kind at any point of any interaction with me...EVER. This isn't about sex, or any sexual contact, this is about domination, the exchange of power.
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My Ideal Person:
I am arrogant and sadistic as well as sensual and will not cater to anyone's whims. Don't confuse civility with respect. Everyone ought to receive civility if they are civil - respect, however, is *earned*. Too many people don't know or understand that significant difference.
I am not wearing some ridiculous slinky garment, nor am I naked. I wear what I wish to wear which is comfortable and stylish. Are you worthy of my gaze?
Time will tell.
*I* will decide if you are or not, begging will do no good. I turn down more people than I accept, though intelligent and engaging conversation is always welcome. If you can't hold your own end of the conversation, go away and bug someone else.
*smile*
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