I'm a big (5'11, 250lb) sexy redhead looking for the man that can be everything to me -- my normal everyday lover as well as my submissive slave ready to handle my every whim. I know exactly what I want out of life and exactly what I expect from a relationship. I'm totally independant and do as I damn well please. I can be the sweetest, most loving woman on earth right up until I am the bitch from hell. I have no limits sexually, I've done it all and intend to do it all again. I can rock your world and change your life if you're capable of garnering my interest. I have a wide variety of interests other than D/s and I love mixing normal activities with the kinky ones. I'm passionate, dramatic and unforgetable when it comes to "taking care" of a man, but I don't allow any melodrama in my world. So there will be no wives, messy old relationships or dramatic baggage from a man's life infringing into my world. I won't support you, I won't deal with any chaos, I won't take you to raise.
It's necessary that you understand that I'm a sensual sadist. I love inflicting pain on a person that can enjoy the sensual aspects of receiving pain. I have gone to the extremes with pain on people that truly enjoy it but I most enjoy the sensual pain...where you can barely tell the difference between pain and pleasure...the line is smudged...you don't know what it is you're feeling...you just know that you want more of it.
It's necessary that a male's orgasm be controlled. I'll take care of that for you and when I deem it earned, you'll get to cum. I believe in chastity...you'll learn to believe as I do. You'll learn to appreciate the superior wisdom of a female dominant much easier when your orgasms are well controlled.
And to answer another often asked question: just because you submit to me (in whatever way) doesn't guarantee that there will be any sex with me involved. That is strictly my decison. You probably won't even be allowed to touch me unless I'm truly impressed.
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My Ideal Person:
My perfect man will take the pain I dole out, be willing to cross every line and embrace every taboo. I demand total submissiveness to all my sexual desires which may include cbt, gs, forced bisexuality and ardent worship of me. If "NO" is in your vocabulary, if you have limits -- don't bother me.
I want a tall man, not a puny whimp. I want a self-confident man that can be everything to me -- my everyday lover that the public will see as simply my boyfriend but a man that will never forget exactly who is in charge.
The best D/s relationships are based on mutual attraction and friendship. There has to be some level of initial attraction. Getting to know one another over a period of time only makes for more fun.
I'm looking for a sexually submissive man that is ready to get to know me, learn to appreciate me and eventually cherish me for all that I am -- not just because I'm a kinky, dominant female that knows how to wield my power. There's a lot more to me, a lot more to a relationship with me than just a cat-o-nine and a strap-on cock. I want a man that can handle a total relationship that includes a vanilla life with a lot of kink thrown in for the extra spice in life.
And please realize, I'm not the domme for a beginner. I do what I want with a male and even though I'm always open for a discussion, I'll make the decisions on what does or doesn't happen. Your ability to keep me interested is dependent on your mind remaining open to all possibilities.
I'm not looking for game players, you must be as honest with me as I will be with you. I expect to be treated with respect from the very beginning. If you don't understand what that means let me enlighten you. I am not a woman that will meet you for a night just because you're in town and want a little kink -- if there is no possibility for a long term situation then move on. If you want to meet me, you'll send a picture, you'll chat with me on IM, we'll talk on the phone, we'll go to lunch or dinner. If we don't have enough in common to get through a normal dinner then we don't have enough in common to go to the next level.
I'm an intimidating female. Your own self confidence is your best bet to get along with me. I'm flirty and affectionate with men that interest me. I expect to laugh and have fun, relax and enjoy the time I spend with a man. If you can't make me laugh you're not going to succeed with me. If I don't feel there's a mutual attraction, meaning that if I can't tell you like me, then I'm done.
I am looking for a SEXUALLY submissive man, not a wimpering doormat. Show me your personality. Share yourself with me. Be brave! You'll like it when I bite.
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