My Ideal Person:
My perfect man will take the pain I dole out, be willing to cross every line and embrace every taboo. I demand total submissiveness to all my sexual desires which may include cbt, gs, forced bisexuality and ardent worship of me. If "NO" is in your vocabulary, if you have limits -- don't bother me.

I want a tall man, not a puny whimp. I want a self-confident man that can be everything to me -- my everyday lover that the public will see as simply my boyfriend but a man that will never forget exactly who is in charge.

The best D/s relationships are based on mutual attraction and friendship. There has to be some level of initial attraction. Getting to know one another over a period of time only makes for more fun

I'm looking for a sexually submissive man that is ready to get to know me, learn to appreciate me and eventually cherish me for all that I am -- not just because I'm a kinky, dominant female that knows how to wield my power. There's a lot more to me, a lot more to a relationship with me than just a cat-o-nine and a strap-on cock. I want a man that can handle a total relationship that includes a vanilla life with a lot of kink thrown in for the extra spice in life.

And please realize, I'm not the domme for a beginner. Don't think you're going to just try taking a little pain with me. Like I said, I am going to hurt you so be careful what you ask for, you're likely to get it and more.

I'm not looking for game players, you must be as honest with me as I will be with you. I expect to be treated with respect from the very beginning. If you don't understand what that means let me enlighten you. I am not a woman that will meet you for a night just because you're in town and want a little kink -- if there is no possibility for a long term situation then move on. If you want to meet me, you'll send a picture, you'll chat with me on IM, we'll talk on the phone, we'll go to lunch or dinner. If we don't have enough in common to get through a normal dinner then we don't have enough in common to go to the next level.

I'm an intimidating female. Your own self confidence is your best bet to get along with me. I'm flirty and affectionate with men that interest me. I expect to laugh and have fun, relax and enjoy the time I spend with a man. If you can't make me laugh you're not going to succeed with me. If I don't feel there's a mutual attraction, meaning that if I can't tell you like me, then I'm done.

I am looking for a SEXUALLY submissive man, not a wimpering doormat. Show me your personality. Share yourself with me. Be brave! You'll like it when I bite.