I have a dominant and aggressive personality - doesn't mean I'm cruel but it does mean I am in charge. I like receiving a little light pain (nipple pinching, etc - don't think you're going to get a chance to punch me or cane me, etc) I used to live with a vanilla who was squeamish at best so guess who didn't get her pain fix. It's not mandatory but it would be a very nice change. You don't have to have a lot of experience either, could be a great learning process for the both of us, finding our boundaries, likes, dislikes, needs, cravings, etc.
Now - outside of this kinky world that I love to play in - I like to read, garden, I live to cook, try new wines, listen to good music, swim down the river, play in the snow, watch anime and good movies, and I am a closet writer (gasp). Tell me what you like too - let me know there's something upstairs besides a drooling sex monster (which is a great start though).
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My Ideal Person:
I need someone who has a good head on their shoulders - you don't have to be sane (goodness knows I'm not) but know what you want, be able to talk about it. Believe me - I want to hear about it. I would love a girlfriend who obeys me and/or a man who can act like a girlfriend. A human pet (male or female) would be perfect - I'm very tactile so they must want to be rubbed, petted, scratched, bitten/nipped, tweaked, stroked constantly. And I do mean constantly.
I think, at least in part, some of my fascination for subs is a result of loving anime - I also have a fascination for beautiful men and can appreciate them very much. I prefer men to be on the male side of androgynous. I'm Amerasian myself and I have found most Amerasian men have a tendency to be androgynous. I think most Amerasian women are either very submissive or very DOMINANT.
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