"No man can serve two Masters.."
i am most happily Owned and operated by two wonderful Menfolk. It's not that complicated if Y/you think of it this way...
In context, the above line is referring to two Masters in conflict. (God and Satan) True, one cannot serve Two Masters that are at odds. But, if they are in unison, it's no worse than obeying two parents, or observing different rules at work and at Wal-Mart. Humans comply with multiple rule-sets daily!
i am lucky that Both work together in managing me, and i never have a service conflict. Each has final authority in realms They have agreed to between Themselves, and i trust Them to manage the division of authority. They have genuine friendship between Them, and share common goals, for Themselves, Their households, and for me.
MrBugn, my spouse and Dominant is my lover, leader, daily companion, the soul of O/our home and the center of my life. i serve Him for the reward of sharing His days and growing old with Him.. as my silver hair attests, i'm well on my way in that!
Master Stern_One is my Master, Teacher, Spiritual guide, the final authority in all things related to lifestyle service and submission, as well as S&M playstuff. i am not His sweetheart, lover, lifemate, or even daily companion, although O/our schedules allow U/s to be wired at the hip. i am His slave. Property. Simply, black and white, with no more expectation nor guarentee than that. i have no contract, i have a pledge of intent:
"i will obey, because i have said i will. i will learn Your ways and they will become mine. i will use all means provided me to do that, and will be held accountable for word and deed."
Since that day, He has worked with my mind, will, and emotions to bring forth much that i never knew i had, and through that, my whole house has been blessed. (i'm still a lazy, prideful, self-absorbed little insect, but it's getting much better!) 
On added pages, i'll have more on how W/we as a group define the diffs tween sub and slave, and more on why i believe those two differing sets of behaviors can be joined in one person.. the way W/we define the terms. Obviously, it wont be the way everyone defines those terms, but it's also a fairly common application.
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My Ideal Person:
i love new F/friends!
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Likes to dance, or be in an adult environment. (I hang out at TSC)
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Football; Green Bay, Steelers or Titans.
If you haven't had your midlife crisis yet, go away.
I know you will, and I don't want to be in the wake of your self-destruction. Thanks! 
For work, i own and operate GrownUps Travel and Leisure, (a Dladybug Properties subsidiary) that hosts Offline events, munches, and socials for Adult online communities, like my Alt and Adult FriendFinder friends. i also sell a line of Adult Leisure items; nylon whips, Hitachi Vibes, Snelling Anal Jewelry, GrownUpsPureCoconut lube. For February i am debuting the hand made GrownUps Padlock Collar shown on the profile pic. i design and host adult websites. i'm basically immersed in kinky people and their social activities, it's no wonder i spend so much time on Alt! My closest friends are active chatters, so come look me up in the Southern Chat room.
     
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