I'm somewhat of a gamer-geek who likes gadgets. Yet I prefer real books to a Kindle. Im also taking a break from computer games until something more compelling that Wow turns up.
I torture myself by knitting because I dont do it all that well, yet I have this thing for yummy yarn and silly hats. I run around with my friends and enable all their bad habits like going to the MAC store and the Mac store. I spend time on Facebook keeping up with old and current friends and Im a constant communicator via my livejournal which Ive had for 8 years.
Integrity is really important to me. I rely on my friends and family to be honest with me, even when it's not going to be what I want to hear. Sometimes I do need a kick in the butt to get over myself. I expect that and I give that. (but I use tact! Theres no need to be cruel, all too often cruelty is about the person being mean dont you find?)
Also I am not skinny, I'm very curvy/hourglass shaped.
addendum: Don't chase me just because of my kink, that would be like taking a bath in paint just because it was wet.
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My Ideal Person:
Who I'm interested in meeting: I like emotionally honest, communicative men who have lived and have integrity, kindness and compassion.
Oh and if you shriek like a girl when I touch you with my cold feet or hands, that's a bonus ;-P
What I'm looking for (base model)
- Sane and emotionally intelligent, able to talk about stuff versus kneejerk reactions. Or even kneejerk and then talk.
- Employed or able to take care of himself.
- A sexual samurai: I like variety, I cant help it, it's the way I'm wired.
- Monogamous, at least when in a committed relationship.
- Amazing communication skills, creative, and did I mention sane?
- Someone who is comfortable with who they are and likes himself.
- You should be able to nurture your friends and loved ones and recognize that it should be reciprocated.
- You should value yourself so that when someone values you, you dont freak out.
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