My Ideal Person:
Please feel free to read the comments below, but if you want the condensed version, here it is --

I'm looking for the man who understands it's not about getting me to "do" what he wants. It's about getting me to "want" what he wants. If he can capture my mind, the rest is his, unconditionally.

Now, for the full version --
I patiently await a strong man - strong in mind, strong in character. One who is intelligent, and wise. One who is compassionate, yet firm. One who is noble enough to earn my respect, patient enough to win my trust, secure enough to regard me as his equal, strong enough to take my submission, and tender enough to dry my tears.

If you're married, or seek an online-submissive or playmate, I wish you the best of luck in that search. But please continue searching, for I am not her.

If you seek another to add to the one(s) you already have, I pray for understanding and courage for you (for you shall most assuredly need them ~smile~). But please continue searching, for I am not her.

If you seek blind obedience from the very beginning, I hope for patience for you, for obedience comes from trust and trust does not come overnight. But please continue searching, for I am not her.

But if you seek one who has a mind and is thankful for being able to use it; one who has flaws and acknowledges them, but is working to change them; one who has a slightly warped sense of humor, but is grateful for this gift; one who has patience won through life's challenges; one who trusts that tomorrow is another day, when all things are possible -- if you seek one who aches to again be a best friend, a lover, a mate.. and submissive within that relationship -- then please stop and talk. I just may be her.