I must be drinking too much tonight, because I just paid good money for this site again. Such a weakness!
I am looking for a man who can put me first and I will put him first in our lives. This is totally aside from the power structures, and speaks to the very real and practical facts of every day life. This man can be a sub, bottom, or switch, though a pure dominant probably won't work.
I'm looking for someone interested in me as a whole person, not just for my dominance. Dominance is a facet of me, not the whole person. I welcome social connections, friends, lovers, and hopefully a partner. In the interest of full disclosure, I hope to some day marry again, but I do not want to have kids of my own.
I don't drink to excess though I like sweet wines and some cocktails. I enjoy travel though can't afford the more grand trips I'd like. I love to share small day to day moments and chores with the one I love as a form of bonding. The bondage doesn't get mixed with chores, except maybe with laundry. Can't or don't want to do the math on that one? Email and ask me 
I had written here a lovely piece that garnered many compliments. I had worked to demonstrate my dominance in the writing. However I have found many men are drawn to my expressions of dominance but they neglect me, the woman.
I am a woman of intelligence, education, and experience. I seek a partner in all parts of life. If you entertain, engage, and appreciate the woman, the Dominant will be revealed.
I won't talk about the minutiae of fetishes. I will not cyber or play games. I will talk about things that matter to me (and hopefully things that matter to you). And I will focus on real world compatibility, not fantasy matchups alone.
Now somewhere along the line, its certain to come up that I like strapon play, or that I have a fetish for bi men or bondage or something called 'sleep sex'. But those things are easy to bring into a relationship that is built on chemistry of personalities.
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My Ideal Person:
Things I like:
Clean cut, masculine men, or softer, clean cut, effeminate men. A man who is financially secure but doesn't feel the need to be the boss. A man with some experience but not so much that he is jaded. Also, I like pragmatism, honesty, loyalty, a sense of humor that is playful but not crude. These aren't mandates, but give you an understanding of my tastes.
Things I don't like:
One True Way attitudes, bad oral (or other) hygiene, deception, most republicans, and poor communication.
I am looking for a life partner, not just a play partner. I suspect play will be an easy thing to find, and I can accommodate most fetishes once the person I find tickles me in other areas. So in most cases, whatever your buttons, I know how to push them. But do I want to? That won't be known until we meet in person and have a few chats.
If you are a professional person, a person with an identity to protect, rest assured I understand. I will not expose your lifestyle or personal choices. I will not publicly humiliate you. This lifestyle is a part of a larger life, with real priorities and interests. If you have goals and ambitions, thats ok with me as long as they can live beside your passions.
I need to share the short list of deal breakers with folks. I am not into forced feminization, men wearing panties, etc. It just does nothing for me and never has. I understand the popularity of this fetish but do not get anything out of it myself. I don't do any illegal drugs and can't abide those that do in my intimate life. STD Safety is vital. I am STD Free and will do all in my power to stay that way.
On a side note, I'd like to learn Mandarin. I'm using an audio program to get some basics but someone local to chat with would be grand.
I like boys with foot fetishes, as well as service oriented boys in general. I like it when you're sensual, sexual and can enjoy things for their own sake as well as the fact that I like it.
I switch on rare occasion if I find a man who inspires my respect and trust. I'm always open to finding a co-dominant to let out our mutual frustrations.
I just adore bisexual boys, especially in pairs, though I can get my fix of that via the porn industry easily enough.
Please be aware that while age should not be a major issue, I am not generally interested in persons more than two decades my senior. In general, I prefer those under 45 years old. If you fall slightly outside the range and think you are highly compatible, certainly do contact me.
If you do not have a profile photo, please send me a photo of your face. Physical attraction does matter.
Attributes of value: Subservience, submissive communication, respect, loyalty, honesty, integrity, initiative, stability, reliability.
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