First thing, READ this profile really well before you send an email! I am on this site for what it was created for, ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLES. I am a domme and a sadist. I am NOT here for sex and I am NOT here for a hook up. I am here to find a submissive male partner and or friendships. NOTHING ELSE. IF you contact me for anything other than an alternative/BDSM lifestyle question or for a possible play partner, your email WILL be tossed in the trash and totally ignored and as much as I hate to, I will block your messages. Nope, I am not a bitch nor am I trying to be rude, I am just sick and tired of all the emails from men who DO NOT pay attention or bother to read my profile.
Now that the unpleasantries are done with, please do read and say hello if you like.
I am a sadistic domme. I am married. Yes, my husband knows I do this. I have been doing this for just over 10 years and I love every minute of it.
I was born and raised in Mississippi. I have lived in Louisiana just over 9 years. I am a warm person and I think my looks fool people into thinking I am rather sweet. (BTW, never call me cute.) Sure, in some ways I can be sweet, but don't let that trick you. I am very sadistic and am usually demanding that I get things my way. I tend to be capricious and occasionally a touch narcissistic but those are my only faults. Ok, not really but they are all I am willing to share.
I love meeting new people and finding myself in new situations. I am a gregarious person and I love being in a social setting. Play parties, munches sure, but also hockey games, fairs, going to the movies, night clubs or just out with friends. My favorite is spending an evening in a pub with Guinness, good food and surrounded by great people.
Outside of the lifestyle I am a very laid back person, fairly likeable, or so I like to think. I am very much into my music, lots of reading (anything that catches my interest), vintage jewelry, art, drawing, water color, shopping and shoes...tons of shoes.
My kinks, I really, REALLY love biting. I enjoy CBT, gags (have a soft spot for a boy in a ring gag), leather cuffs and collars, bondage, hoods, canes, a certain hairbrush, the use of force, light breath play and private, intimate humiliation. I am not too keen on safe words and if I have to choose I like RACK better than SSC.
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My Ideal Person:
As far as my ideal person goes, there is no such thing. I like younger guys. Ages 21 to 37, I just like that age range for the moment. Younger men and I have more in common. So really, no one older than that, please. I like clean guys; I am very firm about cleanliness and will accept nothing less in a man. So please be clean, take showers, wear cologne and do not have any STDs. I used to say I loved guys with shaved heads, tats and piercings (and they can still catch my eye from time to time, if they can pull off the look), but now I am tending to lean towards men who are big, strong and very well groomed and clean cut. I would rather have a man slightly overweight than too skinny. I like manly men, no sissy boys or crossdressers for me, please. If you want to wear panties or pantyhose, keep looking and don't bother emailing. I would rather have a masochist than a submissive so if you aren't into pain, you may want to think twice about me as a possible partner. Don't get me wrong, I would prefer a submissive but a masochist is a must. If you are a submissive masochist, you get extra consideration.
Other than that, friends are what I look for the most. I like someone who appeals to my sense of humor and who is friendly, they can not be dry. I like people who are into music, as long as it isn't country. I like people who can engage in good conversation and are open-minded enough to see other people's opinions or side of things. I enjoy people who are individuals and think outside of the box; someone who can speak their mind but with respect to me and those around them. I really enjoy people in general. I can't say that I am looking for any one type in particular as all men are different and I like variety.
Read this very carefully! If you use the term 'fuck-buddy' or the phrase 'no strings attached' don't bother contacting me. I like to spend time with the people I meet, I like to develop good friendships and keep them. Those terms clearly indicate the person who uses them is seeking something otherwise and is not someone I am interested in.
I do not care for the kind of man who emails asking if I want a sugar-daddy. I will not make exceptions for older men, I will ignore any email that even hints at having sex with me and be completely aware that if you are a male dom who emails me asking if I will play with you, you have a .01 percent chance in that possibility. I AM NOT interested in male doms who say they want to try submission. I am not in any way interested in an online relationship only. I want some real time in there as well. If you can't offer that, this is in no way acceptable to me and I will not even consider you as a potential partner, friend yes, partner no. Lastly, if you can not devote time to this, to me, please do not bother contacting me. BE SURE you can offer me the time I want!
DO NOT send me some email you just cut and paste and send to every domme you come across. Be real, be original, be honest, BE FUNNY! Keep most of these things in mind if you decide to email me as they are important. All polite and interesting email welcome.
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