I love for a man to take charge in the bedroom and tell me what to do, but I have my limits. If you're someone who doesn't understand the dynamics of that idea, and thinks that any sub with limits is "topping from the bottom," then please go on to the next profile, I'm not the sub you want. I believe that a D/s relationship must be built on mutual respect and trust. My submission is a gift that cannot be taken, it must be given by me and accepted by you.
I love sex, and I'm not interested in BDSM without any contact. I prefer bondage to discipline, and although I find some pain to be stimulating, I'm not a pain slut.
I prefer well endowed men (at least 6 inches is an ABSOLUTE MUST and the thicker the better). I don't do kids or animals, poop, watersports or bloodsports, and anything that leaves a permanent mark is out. On the other hand, I am adventurous, and a lot of things are negotiable with me. So if you have a specific idea in mind, ask. Who knows, I might just say "yes."
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My Ideal Person:
I'm not looking for endless chats or phone conversations. But neither am I looking for someone to just jump right in with. I prefer to discuss things before we get started. I prefer to know who I'm getting involved with and what I can expect when we get together. In addition, I don't like game players, so please be honest with me when we discuss what we'll be doing together.
I'm open to a lot of things, so feel free to at least suggest things. If I'm not open for it, it doesn't mean I'm not open to other things. I'm into safe, sane CONSENSUAL play.
I'm not interested in being used and abused by anyone, nor am I interested in using or abusing anyone else. BDSM for me is about mutual trust.
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