My Ideal Person:
I'm just coming off an intense D/s relationship and need a break from that so what I am looking for is a some what submissive, hard core masochist, who is not submissive to everyone. This sounds relatively simple but experience says that some of you will still think you fit the bill so let me get specific.

-bottom, sub or a mostly sub switch, while in the dungeon and with me always, but alpha in the rest of the world is preferred. It's always nice to capture a cop, military man, business owner, doctor. This is not to say I am looking for someone who self identifies as dominant because I most definitely am not. If you are male and believe you just have to find the right Domme to give yourself to, please pass this profile right by. I am not interested in men who don't know their place is at the beck and call of a woman.

-single or in an open relationship, not into secrecy and hiding. Couples are also cool if both are bottoms.

-MASOCHISTIC!!!!! You must like, get off on or be willing to accept pain when you are with me. I like to inflict it. I get off both sexually and mentally when I can see someone grimace in pain from my bite or my cane. So if you have never felt pain and only day dream about it please pass me by. We would waste our time and life is too short for that.

-You must crave at least one of the following: CBT, Electro torture, impact play or sharp pointy objects being driven into your skin(needles).

-Bondage is good if you can give the time to devote to it but don't expect to spend an hour and be intricately bound, creative bondage takes time and patience, if you need to rush out the door to get to work it just won't happen.

-Exhibitionistic is always a plus as well as voyeuristic. I like to see and be seen and am active in the kink community.

-Real time only!!! I don't do cyber, period. I am happy to chat with you for initial contact but don't expect any scenes online.