Don't let the name fool you. I've had this name dormant here for a long time (a couple of years) and just decided to update my profile.
Once upon a time one might of found me deeply submissive, but as life evolves, so do we as individuals. Today that once very submissive person is gone, but there are times I have strong masochistic needs. In my day to day work activities one would never take me for submissive, and in fact if pushed I've been accused of being just the opposite. (Please know I am not looking for a Master/Dom who wants that D/s M/s relationship as part of their primary relationship.)
All too often, I find myself on the giving end of the switch. That is something I fit into very effectively, but know it is for the moment. I have truly no desire beyond that scene in time.
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My Ideal Person:
When I think of looking for a mate, I want an equal. Someone who is sure of himself, knows how to laugh with me, not at me and comfortable being alone, but knows the enhancement of a partner. One who can give as well as he can take. I have a profound kinky streak in me and truly feel nothing is off limits unless that has been pre-negotiated. I can take as well as I can give, but overall have that strong preference for the taking. Given time and with the development of trust I know that deep down that submissive side of me is begging to come out.
A partner is whom I seek, one who enjoys activities inside and outside of the bedroom, boardroom or playroom. Someone not totally adverse to spending an evening at one of the local haunts of debauchery or a weekend sailing in the Gulf of Mexico...
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